Discussions With Dad: Faith, Blood and the In-Between cover art

Discussions With Dad: Faith, Blood and the In-Between

Discussions With Dad: Faith, Blood and the In-Between

By: Tony and Matthew Shaffer; Father and Son
Listen for free

Hosted by Tony Shaffer and Matthew Shaffer, a father and son having the conversations many families avoid. Tony, a lifelong Christian raised in a small rural town in Southern Colorado, brings a traditional, conservative perspective shaped by faith, service, and responsibility. Matthew, his gay son, is a writer, artist, and educator raised in Southern California who leans progressive, guided by creativity, lived experience, and empathy. Together, they explore faith, culture, politics, and family—modeling how love and mutual respect can hold space for disagreement. Theme Music by Bruce MartinTony and Matthew Shaffer; Father and Son Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Episode 13: When Conviction Meets Family
    Jul 9 2026

    Matthew and Tony revisit one of the most defining conversations of their lives: Matthew's coming out. Sharing the same Christian faith but arriving at different understandings of what that faith required, father and son reflect on fear, identity, parenting, and the responsibility to keep listening when conviction and relationship collide. Rather than revisiting old arguments, they explore what helped them remain connected—and whether faith is ultimately measured by certainty, or by the way we choose to love one another. Music Composed by Bruce Martin.

    Show More Show Less
    1 hr and 1 min
  • Episode 12: Growing Pains: When the Country Outgrows the Family Story
    Jun 25 2026

    Summary

    As America approaches its 250th birthday, Matthew and Tony ask what we are called to preserve, what we are being asked to outgrow, and how families, communities, and countries move through growing pains without losing each other. In this conversation, they wrestle with freedom, patriotism, the Constitution, generational fear, social media, AI, education, the trades, gun rights, mental health, family structure, and the weight of history. Along the way, the larger national questions become deeply personal: how do we honor what was good about the past while making room for those who were hurt by it? And how do we move forward when love, apology, repentance, and real change are all required?

    At its heart, this conversation is about inheritance—not only what we receive, but what we choose to repair, release, and carry forward.

    Music Composed by Bruce Martin.

    Show More Show Less
    1 hr and 1 min
  • Episode 11: When Protection Become Control
    Jun 10 2026

    As Father's Day approaches, Matthew and Tony discuss what fathers leave behind for the next generation: not inheritance, but values. Along the way, they wrestle with questions about freedom, control, AI, community, and the future they'll leave behind, ultimately asking what it means to leave the world a little better than we found it.

    Theme Music Composed by Bruce Martin.

    Show More Show Less
    1 hr and 1 min
adbl_web_anon_alc_button_suppression_t1
No reviews yet