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Dear Tisia

Dear Tisia

By: Relationship Restored
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 Dear Tisia, presented by Relationship Restored, is where your love life meets real talk. Hosted by dating and relationship coach Tisia, this podcast is your go-to space for unfiltered advice, hot takes, and deep dives into the realities of modern dating. Each episode, Tisia reads real letters from listeners and responds with a mix of tough love, expert insight, and hilarious honesty. Whether you’re single, situationship’d, or deep in a relationship, Dear Tisia is here to help you heal, grow, and stop repeating the same dating patterns. No sugarcoating. No fluff. Just the truth you need to hear—with a little side eye and a lot of heart.Relationship Restored Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Purpose Before Love: Integrity, Healing, and Choosing the Right Man

    Purpose Before Love: Integrity, Healing, and Choosing the Right Man
    Jan 26 2026
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    In this powerful guest episode, Tisia sits down with Nate Cottman for an honest, grounded conversation about love, purpose, healing, and what actually matters when choosing a partner.
    Nate brings a refreshing perspective on masculinity, integrity, and emotional depth, reminding us that a man’s purpose should come before partnership. Drawing from spirituality and the biblical story of Adam being given purpose before Eve, Nate explains why diligence, alignment, and character matter more than charm or chemistry.
    Together, Tisia and Nate explore:
    • What women should truly look for in a man beyond attraction
    • Why integrity and purpose are non-negotiables
    • Emotional transparency and being known for your heart
    • How family dynamics and father wounds shape how we love
    • The role of faith and staying aligned with God
    • Emotional regulation vs shrinking yourself in relationships
    • When effort is reciprocal… and when it’s not
    • Therapy, healing, and timing in relationships

    💌 Dear Tisia Voicemail SegmentThey also unpack a listener voicemail from a woman who feels like she’s losing herself trying to stay chosen in her relationship. The discussion breaks down:
    • Emotional regulation without silencing your needs
    • Whether effort after conflict is growth or a red flag
    • How to tell if a relationship needs boundaries — or an ending

    This episode is for anyone navigating love while trying to stay whole, aligned, and emotionally honest — without over-investing in relationships that cost you yourself.
    🎁 The episode closes with a heartfelt moment of appreciation and a surprise gift for Nate, celebrating friendship, empathy, and seeing the value in one another.
    ✨ If this conversation resonated with you:
    • Like the video
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    • Leave a comment with your biggest takeaway
    • Share this episode with someone choosing love more intentionally
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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • Abandoned After Christmas, Gold Digger Accusations & Finding Your Voice

    Abandoned After Christmas, Gold Digger Accusations & Finding Your Voice
    Jan 19 2026
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    In thiis episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking what happens when love ends without closure, when generosity turns into resentment, and when being “too nice” costs you clarity.

    🎄 One woman is blindsided when her fiancé leaves the day after Christmas — no conversation, no explanation — after years of her supporting his dreams and building a shared life with her son.

    💔 Another caller is labeled a “gold digger” after she refuses sex post-breakup — exposing how unhealed grief and emotional immaturity can masquerade as “nice guys.”

    🧠 And we talk about the sweet spot — how women can lead with warmth and boundaries from the very beginning.

    ✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we feature Bond No. 9 Nolita, a fresh floral-woody scent that smells like confidence, clarity, and moving on with grace.

    🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack the revelation that Yandy Smith and Mendeecees Harris were never legally married — despite nearly a decade of playing husband and wife — and what that means for commitment, protection, and accountability.

    👇 Let’s talk about it.

    #DearTisia #DatingAdvice #RedFlagReport #EmotionalHealing #Boundaries
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    57 mins
  • Airport Flings, Financial Red Flags, Ghosting Pain & No-Label Love

    Airport Flings, Financial Red Flags, Ghosting Pain & No-Label Love
    Jan 12 2026
    Sponsor: Cozy Earth
    Use code GREENFLAG for up to 20 percent off at 👉 https://www.cozyearth.com

    Call In Here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/deartisiawrite-in

    In This episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking the moments that leave women confused, disappointed, and questioning themselves — even when they did nothing wrong.

    ✈️ One woman meets a man in the airport who chases her down, asks for her number… then switches up completely.

    💸 Another caller is asked to put her car up for a loan by a man she’s been dating — and guilt-tripped when she says no.

    👻 A third woman opens her heart, shows up fully, and gets ghosted right after.
    ✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we explore FORVR Mood – I Am Her, a warm gourmand scent that smells like confidence and boundaries.

    🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, we revisit the no-labels debate through the rise and quiet end of Teyana Taylor and Aaron Pierre — asking whether undefined love can really last.
    👇 Let’s talk. Because clarity is the bare minimum.

    #DearTisia #DatingAdvice #RedFlagReport #Ghosting #Situationships #ModernDating
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    1 hr and 12 mins
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