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Coming Out Christian - A LOVEboldly Podcast

Coming Out Christian - A LOVEboldly Podcast

By: Siobhan Boyd-Nelson and Ben Huelskamp
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Sometimes, it's as hard to come out as an LGBTQIA+ person in a Christian space as it is to come out as a Christian in an LGBTQIA+ space. Deeply faithful, critical, and sometimes a bit irreverent, "Coming Out Christian" meets that challenge head-on through the often silent and silenced narratives of Queer Christians. Join Siobhan Boyd-Nelson and the Rev. Dr. Ben Huelskamp for frank and revealing conversations at the intersection of faith, sexual orientation, gender identity, race, and other identities.

"Coming Out Christian" is a project of LOVEboldly, an organization working to create spaces where LGBTQIA+ people can flourish in Christianity. Learn more about LOVEboldly at www.loveboldly.net.

LOVEboldly, 2025
Christianity Spirituality
Episodes
  • "A Co-Conspirator for Justice" with the Rev. Charles Unique
    Jun 28 2026

    Coming Out Christian | Season 3, Episode 13 Guest: Rev. Charles Unique

    What does it look like when ministry and justice aren't two separate callings — but one?

    Rev. Charles Unique is a gender anarchist, organizer, and ordained clergy whose life work centers the dismantling of oppressive systems and the liberation of marginalized communities. With over a decade of community-rooted experience, Charles serves as Legal Empowerment Organizer at Tenants Transforming Greater St. Louis and is the founder of Flower Boi STL, a peer-led space for masculine people of color to dismantle toxic masculinity and build alternative modes of expression. They are also a co-founder and board member of THISTL, supporting trans housing access across St. Louis, and a Master of Divinity student at Eden Theological Seminary. Their organizing, writing, and movement work have been featured in STL Magazine, KSDK News, and NPR, among others.

    In this episode, hosts Siobhan Boyd-Nelson and Rev. Dr. Ben Huelskamp sit down with Charles to explore their experiences as a Black trans man of faith, their path toward ordination, and their tireless work at the intersection of housing justice, food sovereignty, gender freedom, and Black trans liberation. It's a conversation that refuses to separate the spiritual from the political — because for Charles, they never have been.

    Fierce, tender, and utterly necessary.

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    58 mins
  • "Called to Heal in Many Ways" with the Rev. Julia Joyce-Miesse
    Jun 21 2026

    Coming Out Christian | Season 3, Episode 12 Guest: Rev. Julia Joyce-Miesse

    What happens when a life of healing — as a nurse, as a priest, as a mother, as a spouse — finally includes healing yourself?

    Rev. Julia Joyce-Miesse is a cradle Episcopalian, a registered emergency nurse of 23 years, and an ordained priest whose call to healing has taken many forms. Formed in the Episcopal Church in Charleston, South Carolina, Julia's path to ordination was shaped by luminaries like Bishop Barbara Harris and tested by the crucible of a global pandemic — for which she received the Dean's Cross for Servant Leadership from Virginia Theological Seminary, an honor shared by the likes of Madeleine Albright and Wendell Berry. She is now serving in Ohio, married to the Rev. Iva Joyce-Miesse, and mother to an incredible adult son, Taylor.

    In this episode, hosts Siobhan Boyd-Nelson and Rev. Dr. Ben Huelskamp sit down with Julia for a rich, wide-ranging conversation about growing up biracial in predominantly white spaces, the intertwining calls to heal as a nurse and as a priest, the experience of being a parent, and spending many years in the closet — alongside her husband — before stepping into a life lived fully and openly as an LGBTQIA+ person, married to another female priest, and thriving in ministry.

    Generous, courageous, and deeply human — this one is not to be missed.

    • 🎙️ Follow the podcast: @comingoutchristian_podcast
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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • "Being Openly Christian in a Different Way" with Pastor Rory Chumney
    Jun 14 2026

    Coming Out Christian | Season 3, Episode 11 Guest: Pastor Rory Chumney

    What does faith look like when it's built for the people the church has always left out?

    Pastor Rory Chumney is a Queer, trans man, seminary student, professional activist, and Christian Anarchist. Rory grew up in a deeply Christian Nationalist, evangelical environment before leaving the church in his teens. He describes the next fifteen years as his "Jonah" arc — running from God and the church despite constant brushes with both — until he finally accepted his calling to become a pastor in 2022. His heart, as he puts it, is with "the broke bitches, the queer and kinky and non-monogamous, the tattooed and pierced punks and protestors, and all those who prefer disorganized religion."

    In this episode, hosts Siobhan Boyd-Nelson and Rev. Dr. Ben Huelskamp sit down with Rory to explore his journey back to faith, what it means to be a trans person of faith and faith leader, the work of healing religious trauma, and what Christian anarchism actually is. It's a wide-ranging, boundary-pushing conversation about who the church is for — and who it could be for.

    Punk, prophetic, and absolutely worth your time.

    • 📲 Follow Rory: @punkpastor
    • 🎙️ Follow the podcast: @comingoutchristian_podcast
    • 🌈 Follow LOVEboldly: @loveboldly
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    56 mins
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