In this episode, we dive into the heart of what it truly means to follow Jesus. Too often, modern Christianity focuses on raising hands, saying a prayer, or “joining the club,” but discipleship goes far deeper. Erin and Ramonita unpack the difference between being a convert and being a disciple, explore the relational nature of spiritual growth, and challenge the idea that the Church exists to grow crowds rather than cultivate life-changing faith. They also reflect on Jesus’ model of discipleship — small, intentional, and deeply relational — and offer practical ways to live it out today.

5 Key Takeaways:

1. Discipleship is about following Jesus, not just believing in Him.
2. True spiritual growth requires relational investment — you become like who you spend time with.
3. Modern Christianity often emphasizes converts over disciples, but depth matters more than width.
4. Discipleship happens best in small, intentional communities where people can be fully known.
5. Building tables (relationships) matters more than building brands (numbers or programs).

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In this episode we dive into a big question: What is the role of the church… really? We will take a look at how the church has evolved over time, how the early church prioritized community over structure, and the ways different expressions of church—house churches, small gatherings, and traditional settings—can all be meaningful.

We talk honestly about the tension between structure and Spirit, the pressures of modern church culture, and why intimacy with God is always central. Our relationship with Him isn’t defined by church attendance—church can help cultivate our faith, but it isn’t the measure of it. Going to church is not the same as living in faith.

This conversation invites listeners to rethink church beyond attendance, embrace curiosity and questions in their faith, and reflect on their own role in the body of Christ.

Key Takeaways:

1. The church was never meant to be something we attend, but something we participate in.
2. Intimacy with Jesus should come before church involvement or activity.
3. Different expressions of church—traditional, house churches, and small gatherings—can all be faithful and meaningful.
4. The early church prioritized shared life, community, and presence over performance and structure.
5. Asking questions and staying curious are essential for a healthy, growing faith and church community.

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A lot of us have heard about the Holy Spirit, but still feel unsure about who the Holy Spirit actually is—or how the Spirit shows up in real life.

In this episode, Erin and Ramonita talk honestly about the shift from thinking of the Holy Spirit as a vague idea or spiritual add-on to recognizing the Spirit as a who—someone personal, present, and deeply involved in our everyday lives. They reflect on how the Holy Spirit comforts, guides, and empowers us, often in quiet ways we don’t always notice at first.

They also explore how understanding the Holy Spirit changes the way we relate to God altogether. Rather than focusing only on spiritual gifts or dramatic moments, this conversation centers on relationship—how the Holy Spirit walks with us, shapes our faith over time, and has often been present long before we had language for it.

This episode is for anyone who has felt curious, confused, or hesitant about the Holy Spirit—and for anyone longing for a faith that feels more connected, grounded, and alive.

Key Takeaways:

* The Holy Spirit is a who, not a what, and desires relationship with us.

* The Holy Spirit offers comfort and guidance in everyday life.

* Understanding the Holy Spirit can shift faith from information to connection.

* The Holy Spirit empowers believers to live in alignment with God’s will.

* The Holy Spirit has been present and active, even before we recognize it.

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