Our final thoughts on this saga we are going through and answering a question sent in by a listener.

We're back — and we have a lot to say. Year four of marriage brought us some of the best moments we've shared together, and honestly, the hardest. In this episode, we're finally opening up about something we've kept close: after three years of trying to conceive, we traveled to Greece to do IVF — and it didn't work. We're not sharing this from the other side of healing. We're sharing it from the middle of it. We talk about the word God gave Jess years before we even started trying, the peace we felt going in, and the very specific kind of grief that comes when God says not yet — especially when you emptied your savings account and flew across the world believing He would. We get into the wrestling — with doubt, with prayer, with showing up to church when you don't want to, with singing worship songs you don't fully mean right now. We talk about Abraham, Lazarus, Romans 4, and what it actually looks like to hope when hope feels pointless. And we close on where we're landing as we step into year five: grateful, locked in, and choosing to live fully in the right now. If you're waiting on something — a baby, a breakthrough, an answer — this one's for you.

A listener wrote in with one of the most relatable situations we've heard — she caught feelings for her guy friend, told him, and he said he wasn't ready... but maybe in the future. Now she's stuck between protecting her heart and not wanting to lose one of the most important people in her life.

This week, we're getting into all of it — the power shift that happens the moment feelings are out in the open, why "maybe" can be more confusing than a flat-out no, and what it actually looks like to set a boundary when you don't want to. We also get into our own story, because yeah, we've been on both sides of this.

If you've ever liked your friend and didn't know what to do next — this one's for you.