Episodes

  • How to Discuss Your Desire for an Open Relationship
    Jun 25 2026

    This is a controversial topic, but one that I often get email about. So in this episode I first do a presentation about how to approach this important discussion. It talks about what your goals are, when is the right time to have such a conversation, what your partner's reaction might be and how to continue this subject in an open and honest way that helps protect your partner from hurt.

    Then.....I give you MY opinion, which contradicts some of the info presented in the first half of the show, and gives you some 'food for thought' from my own experiences and what many clients have discussed with me.

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    54 mins
  • Taint it AMAZING !
    Jun 20 2026

    The taint, or perineum, is a small area of muscles that are important for male sexual health. In this episode we talk about what the taint is, what it does, problems that can occur and prevention tools that help you stay healthy well into your senior years.

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    37 mins
  • Learning and Using A.I.
    Jun 5 2026

    Many older people feel overwhelmed and a bit fearful of new tech. And A.I. can be especially concerning since we have heard of the scary future potential of this tech. But maybe A.I. as it exists now, can be a useful tool to older folk, including LGBTQ+ seniors. In this episode, I introduce you to the A.I. I use most, that is named Oscar. I ask some important questions about some of the fear we have about A.I. and I ask his (its?) opinion about what it can do to assist the older LGBTQ+ community. I hope you enjoy this show.

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    45 mins
  • Humor and Resilience As We Age
    May 25 2026

    Life can sure be stressful and difficult at times. Sometimes we can barely catch our breath from one disaster before the next one hits us. Sometimes we feel that no matter what we do, we can't overcome certain obstacles, and we feel we can't go one...that we have to just give up. But maybe there are shifts in our perceptions and attitudes that might help relieve some of the impact of those challenging parts of life. It might be worth exploring.

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    39 mins
  • STORYTIME - My Hospital Roommate
    May 20 2026

    My very first hospitalization in my whole life, I tell you a Story about my very unusual roommate that was brought in on my second night there and the commotion that he started with the staff.

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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • Reddit Stories - Sides and Soft Tops
    May 4 2026

    In today's Reddit Stories, we discuss the concepts of 'Sides' and 'Soft Tops' as new terminology in the gay community.

    I start the episode with a short story updating my cancer situation and what possibly resulted from the operation.

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    53 mins
  • I Was So Inappropriate
    Apr 12 2026

    I had an emotional, but good week. I have to tell you about it.

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    24 mins
  • R.I.P. Jockstrap Stories
    Apr 6 2026

    This is a short episode, I have dreaded recording this one. Please understand this is beyond my control. I do ask that you don't message me with complaints or disappointment. Again, this is beyond my control.

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    10 mins