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This is an introspective episode.

Not about fixing yourself, but about becoming consciously aware of the choices you’re already making in relationships, connection, and community.

In this conversation, I invite you to slow down, reflect, and take notes as we explore the often-uncomfortable truth that awareness doesn’t automatically lead to change — choice does.

Building on the last episode about choosing yourself in relationships, this episode examines:

• What we tolerate and why
• How repeated tolerance becomes identity
• Where self-awareness turns into self-betrayal
• The difference between compassion and avoidance

Through reflective questions and grounded insight, this episode asks you to look honestly at where you are still choosing familiarity over alignment, and how those choices shape the relationships you allow into your life.

This episode is meant to be paused, journaled through, and returned to.
It sets the foundation for the upcoming conversations on attachment styles and the difference between compatibility and trauma bonding.

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We hear “choose yourself” everywhere — but what does that really mean when you’re in a relationship you’re trying to make work?

In this episode, I share how I came to the painful realization that I was abandoning myself in the name of love. By sacrificing my wants, needs, and voice to maintain connection, I was unintentionally teaching myself that my inner truth didn’t matter.

After going no contact and confronting deep-rooted childhood abandonment wounds, I reached a breaking point where “enough” finally meant enough. From that space, I began the work of choosing myself unapologetically — without buying into the narrative that honoring my needs makes me selfish, difficult, or unlovable.

I also guide listeners through a powerful, deployable exercise that helped me access inner wisdom by gathering different timelines of myself — allowing clarity, self-trust, and grounded decision-making to emerge.

This episode is an invitation to reclaim your voice, stop self-abandonment, and learn how to choose yourself without guilt — so your relationships can be rooted in truth rather than sacrifice.

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Love isn't always logical. Emotions take over, the heart dreams wildly, and it becomes so easy to get lost within the depths of love. So, how can we lead with love while still being authentically centered?

Through my journey of experiences lately I've learned an important lesson: Love requires integration to truly last. When we meet ourselves from the space of where we're giving from, we start to connect with our childhood. How love felt to us growing up, what we learned was acceptable or what wasn't, and what made us feel safe has shaped our ideas of love now. When we meet ourselves truly and fully, we start to see all the ways that we haven't been fully met and embraced. You're not broken, you're not unlovable, and you're not asking for too much - you just haven't fully integrated your capacities to maintain the system of support you need.

In this episode, we'll dive into the insights of how my life experiences have led me to integrate a sustainable system of care, and how I'm using my intuitive nature with my logical senses.

It's time to experience real love. Love that doesn't only burn with chemistry but lasts with compatibility. A love that chooses you and shows up consistently through acts of care and words of affirmation. This love exists but are you ready to become the version of you who can hold this reality? Let's talk about it!

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