There's a difference between sympathy and compassion, and that distinction matters more than we might think.

Many of us were taught that caring means feeling with others, taking on their pain, or trying to fix what’s hard. But over time, that way of relating can leave us overwhelmed, entangled, or quietly exhausted.

In this conversation with Wendy, we begin with a simple question about sympathy and compassion, and uncover something much deeper. We explore the parts of us that long to be held in our pain, the ways we learned to protect ourselves, and how those patterns show up in our relationships today.

Together, we look at how to stay present with suffering, our own and others’, without collapsing, rescuing, or shutting down.

Listen to learn:

•The key difference between sympathy and compassion (and why it matters)

•How to care deeply without taking on what isn’t yours

•Practical ways to stay grounded and relational in moments of emotional intensity

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