Can we just take a second to acknowledge that we actually did this?

Seven episodes.
One podcast.
Countless unexpected conversations.
And somehow… people actually listened.

In this season one finale, we look back on everything that surprised us, challenged us, made us laugh, and brought us closer—from awkward first recordings and “plugged” confessions to hard conversations about spouses, friendships, and vulnerability.

We talk about the feedback that genuinely moved us, what we learned about each other, and how this podcast changed our relationship in ways we didn’t expect.

And yes… we’re talking about what’s next.

Season 2? Oh, we have ideas.

• What surprised us most about each other
• The funniest moment of the entire season (spoiler: plugs were involved)
• The conversations that were hardest to have—and why
• YOUR feedback that genuinely hit us in the feels
• How this podcast changed our relationship as brothers
• What we learned about vulnerability, openness, and trust
• Season 2 ideas we’re very excited about

What started as a wild idea between brothers became something way more meaningful than either of us expected. Whether you listened to one episode or all seven… thank you.

Seriously.

Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod

Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X)

Don’t forget to check out the Kinky Bros Resource Guide at:
thekinkybros.com

Books, communities, podcasts, subreddits, and resources we referenced throughout the season—all in one place.

Let’s just say… we’ve got thoughts.

More guests.
More specific kink deep-dives.
More honest conversations.
Definitely edging.

You’ve been warned.

Disclaimer:

This podcast is intended for adult audiences only.

This week, we brought in an actual expert. Like… a real doctor.

After five episodes of two brothers oversharing about kink, relationships, communication, and discovery, it was time to bring in someone who actually knows what they’re talking about.

Enter Dr. Ty Lerman—clinical sexologist, certified sex therapist.

Together, we tackle some of the biggest questions listeners have been asking:
Is kink “normal”?
What’s the difference between a kink and a fetish?
Is jealousy inevitable?
Can open relationships actually work?
And why are conversations about sex still so damn hard?

This episode is honest, educational, validating, and probably the one you’ll want to send to someone else.

• Is it actually weird that two brothers talk openly about kink?
• The surprising stats on how many people are kinky (hint: way more than you think)
• Kink vs. fetish: what’s the actual difference?
• Why sex conversations still feel so taboo
• Open relationships: what people get wrong before they start
• Compersion: the word more people need to know
• Jealousy vs. envy (and why they’re NOT the same thing)
• Dr. Ty’s advice for anyone exploring kink for the first time

This conversation is packed with information—but it’s still just that: a conversation.
Not therapy. Not medical advice. Just honest discussion with someone who’s spent years helping people navigate these exact topics.

Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod

Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X)

Instagram: @tdlcounseling
Website: https://tdlcounseling.com

We wrap this first chapter of the Kinky Bros journey by talking about how to make these conversations easier—for couples, families, friends… and honestly, for all of us.

This podcast is intended for adult audiences only. This episode discusses sexuality, relationships, and kink in an educational and conversational context.

Who knows this side of you… and who doesn’t?

In Episode 5, we shift the conversation beyond partners and into the wider world—friends, social circles, and the different “buckets” we keep our lives in.

Why is it so hard to talk about this with the people we’ve known the longest?
What do we gain—or lose—by keeping parts of ourselves separate?

From “bro code” silence to unexpected support, we explore what it really looks like to navigate kink, identity, and curiosity in everyday life.

In This Episode:

• Why some friendships never go there—and others surprise you
• The “straight bro code” and why certain conversations don’t happen
• Keeping separate worlds: kink life vs. “vanilla” life
• How stigma shapes what we share (and what we don’t)
• Finding community in unexpected places
• What happens when your identity starts to shift—and not everyone comes with you
• The question we all face: is there a cost to staying quiet?

This episode might make you think about your own friendships—and what you choose to share (or keep hidden).
We’re not here to tell you what’s right. Just what’s been real for us.

Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod

Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X)

We’re calling in back-up, and we’re get psych-y! Certified sex therapist & clinical sexologist (& kinkster) Dr. Ty, joins the Kinky Bros podcast to answer all sorts of questions!

This podcast is intended for adult audiences only.

What happens when your personal journey doesn’t just affect you… but the person you love?

In this episode, we open up about our partners, the conversations we’ve struggled to have, and what it really takes to navigate kink, curiosity, and identity inside a relationship.

From awkward moments and miscommunication to growth, boundaries, and hard truths—this is about figuring it out in real time.

• Why communication is the hardest (and most important) part of all of this
• The reality of introducing kink into a relationship
• Moments we got it wrong—and what we learned from it
• The difference between rules vs. boundaries
• How partners react (support, hesitation, and everything in between)
• Why ego, fear, and timing play such a huge role

These are real relationships and real conversations.
We’re only speaking from our own experiences—not giving advice, just sharing what we’ve lived.

Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod

Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (BlueSky & X)

Next time, the OTHER relationships we have… our friendships outside of kink. Why is it so hard to talk about this with the people who’ve known us the longest?

We FINALLY get down & dirty about what we’re actually into.

From rubber and leather to toys, sensation play, edging, and everything in between—we put it all on the table and uncover way more than we expected.

What starts as a fun comparison quickly turns into real moments of surprise, connection, and a few “wait… you’re into that too?” realizations.

• The gear we’re wearing (yes, we recorded this one in gear)
• Toys, plugs, cock rings, and how we actually use them
• Sensation play, electro play, and pushing boundaries
• The truth about edging—and why it’s a game changer
• Kinks we align on… and where we wildly differ
• The concept of compersion and shared pleasure
• Group dynamics, exhibitionism, and voyeurism

Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod

Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X)

We take things in a very different direction—what happens love meets kink...?
Spoiler: it’s not always easy.

In this episode, we go back to childhood—how we were raised, what we were (and definitely weren’t) taught about sex, and the very different paths that led us to where we are today.

From secret magazine discoveries to early internet chat rooms, we unpack the moments, influences, and silence that shaped our understanding of identity, pleasure, and shame.

This episode explores how childhood, sex education, and early experiences shape our understanding of kink, sexuality, and identity.

• Why sex was never talked about growing up
• The unexpected “education” we actually got
• Early exposure: magazines, internet, and curiosity
• Growing up with (and without) shame
• How our experiences as kids shaped who we are now

Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod

Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (BlueSky & X)

We finally get into it—our kinks. What they are, how we discovered them, and why they’re not as strange as you might think.

Two brothers. One unexpected discovery. A whole new conversation.

In our very first episode, we share the unexpected moment we realized we’d both been exploring the world of kink—separately—and how that discovery completely changed our relationship.

We’re not experts—just two brothers having real, honest (and sometimes hilarious) conversations about things most people never say out loud.

• How a random TV show sparked everything
• The first time we opened up to each other
• Our very different “origin stories” into kink
• Why this actually brought us closer

Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod

Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (BlueSky & X)

We go back to where it all started—growing up in the same house, but learning very different lessons about identity, masculinity, and the things nobody talked about.

Two brothers. One unexpected discovery. A whole new conversation.

You think you know your sibling… until you don’t.

What happens when the biggest secret you’ve both been keeping turns out to be the one thing that brings you closer?

From awkward first moments to full-on honesty, the Kinky Bros Podcast dives into identity, curiosity, and the things most people never say out loud.
Follow the Show:

Instagram: @kinkybrospodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod