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To Have or To Hold

Nature's Hidden Relationships

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Bloomsbury presents To Have To Have or To Hold: Nature's Hidden Relationships, written and read by Sophie Pavelle

A thrilling exploration of nature’s symbiotic relationships, some comforting and familiar, others wildly alien, by the award-winning author of Forget Me Not.

What can nature teach us about living together? Investigating eight symbiotic relationships trying to survive the climate and biodiversity crises, Sophie Pavelle explains why it has never been more vital for us to understand symbiosis. Symbiotic relationships regulate ecosystems, strengthen resilience and bind pivotal connections.

Species living together in symbiosis is no accident – these dynamics evolved. Species form and sever alliances everywhere, from deep within temperate rainforests to the open ocean, quiet tidal pools or chalk grasslands, and nature thrives on relationships as glamorous as they are grotesque and as bizarre as they are engrossing.

In To Have or To Hold, Sophie relishes the interconnectedness between species and celebrates the relationships that underpin natural environments. Low-carbon travelling around the British Isles, she presents nature’s frauds, fortune-tellers, misfits and cheaters.

The natural world is built on parasitism, a cunning blend of bargaining and exploitation in the name of survival. In our relationship with the natural world, are we the parasites? Will we continue to exploit nature’s resources? Or will we vow to love and cherish what remains – shaping a more restorative life alongside nature – till death us do part?

©2025 Sophie Pavelle (P)2025 Bloomsbury Publishing Plc
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Sophie is an exceptional talent, a wonderful wordsmith and narrator, her use of language, both written and oral, is truly beautiful and completely entrancing. To Have Or To Hold is a faultless follow up to Forget Me Not. Highly recommended.

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I really enjoyed this book. Handles a complex subject with a light and thoughtful touch.

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once again Sophie has come up with a gem of a book, thought provoking, accessible and narrated with a light touch that makes it a joy to listen to. Each chapter takes you into a different world of symbiosis in the natural world but never gets bogged down with too much scientific detail. Just enough for the listener to understand and appreciate these little worlds that go on largely unseen but are part of the varied and crucial natural world that surrounds us.

eye opening account of a mostly hidden world

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The author takes a series of unfamiliar, seemingly uncharismatic, but local (to the UK) examples of symbiosis and weaves a fascinating web of facts and interpretations around them. I liked the combination of scientific rigor and inventive, energetic and at times poetic use of language. I will seek out lungwort lichen and see it in a new light on future walks in Devon. Pavelle is a new talent in nature writing.

The contagious fascination of lichen, worms orchids and ants.

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