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The Social Distance Between Us

How Remote Politics Wrecked Britain

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The Social Distance Between Us

By: Darren McGarvey
Narrated by: Darren McGarvey
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Britain is in a long-distance relationship with reality....

From poverty and policing, homelessness and overrun prisons to Grenfell and hostile environments, Britain has long been failing those who need our help the most. There is arguably one unifying theme that links all these afflictions: proximity. Proximity is how close we are to the action and how that affects how we assess, relate to and address whatever that action happens to be. Almost every job requires a level of experience and training with the notable exception of the most powerful people in the country—our political class.

So this is a book about the distance, whether geographical, economic, or cultural, between those who make decisions and the people on the receiving end of them. The distance between the affluent and the poor, how their interests and values diverge, and the assumptions they make about each other's experiences and intentions in the absence of any meaningful interaction. How even those with the noblest aims, inadvertently cause harm as a result of their social remoteness and fail to advance anybody's interests but their own misguided ones.

Could Britain's problem be, not that there is a lot of inequality, but that for generations, a small group of people, who know little about it, have been charged with discussing, debating, and sorting it out? At what point do we look for answers, not to the people who are hardest up, but the apparently educated and sophisticated, whose dominance of Britain's institutions has been virtually unbroken for centuries?

©2022 Darren McGarvey (P)2022 Penguin Audio
History & Philosophy Philosophy Poverty & Homelessness Science Social Classes & Economic Disparity Social Sciences Sociology Inspiring Thought-Provoking Socialism Capitalism

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Darren now wields a pen as a surgeon wields a scalpel

cutting
but in a way which is needed

a way in which hurts in the short term
but once the scars heal, we will appreciate the necessity

I implore people to absorb Darren's analysis.
let it percolate
then act

If everyone in the world did what they could, we would all tick along nicely


Darren wields a pen as a surgeon wields a scalpel

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challenging yet excellent.
a simple premise building on his analysis and challenging his audience

hard read, yet brilliant

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The topics covered in this book are as wide ranging as education, healthcare, welfare state, politics, addiction and homelessness, and they are all seamlessly intertwined by the core pillar of proximity gaps. Based on personal experience and getting face to face with people suffering due to the abysmal condition of modern Britain, Darren McGarvey is an authentic voice here, and it's made even better by his narration.
There are topics in this book which I don't have direct experience of, but the detail and honesty portrayed in this book have enlightened my world view, and I now want to learn more about how to help and how to become an agent for change.
Essential listening for anyone interested in digging the UK out of the abyss.
The suggested solutions in the Coda are all possible but we need to act now to effect those changes.

A compelling & brutally insightful view of the UK

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It’s not often you read a book and feel like it speaks to your experiences in such a profound way.

Darren puts into words the experiences of the adults around me as I grew up, mostly insulated by my single mother and her determination to give us the best life we could have, growing up on benefits, fearing the police, and not getting the right sort of educational support in school to me I thought were normal.

Im 27 now, and only now looking back can I fully appreciate the work my mum put in, she really did do a great job insulating me from all those hardships and I’m now no longer poor, destitute or worrying.

It shouldn’t take a book for me to realise this, but in any case, I’m glad it did.

This is a book everyone should read if you live in Britain.

The most impactful book I’ve read and listened too

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I’ve been recommending Darren’s previous Orwell prize winning book, Poverty Safari for the last year because it was so personal and revealing. I’ve just finished The Social Distance Between Us, and whilst not so personal, it’s incredible. It felt like a degree level learning experience. The wide scope, intelligence and perception is incredible, because it starts from the in-depth research and preparation that came through his TV series. It is brilliant. It hits the nail on the head, where university professors leave me confused and flummoxed. I’ve bought the hard copy too, so I can study in detail.

We should all now learn the language and think about how we can start to put things right.

Epic! A Changemaker. Please listen and join the movement for change.

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