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The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
- A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert, Revised and Updated
- Narrated by: Eric Michael Summerer
- Length: 10 hrs and 17 mins
- Categories: Relationships, Parenting & Personal Development, Relationships
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- lynsey broad
- 09-07-20
very helpful
this book covers all areas of marriage. I hope I can apply it in my life. very grateful for the amount of work put into this book.
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- Christi Thorn
- 19-02-20
The Bible of Relationship books
I’ve read a lot of relationship books, but this one was by far my favorite. While it is not one of the most entertaining I’ve ever read, it is hands down the most useful. This book is literally THE handbook for a successful marriage and John Gottman’s advice is GOLD. The book really forces you to take a good, hard look at your relationship, it’s strengths and weaknesses, and focus on improving the areas that need improvement. Although, I will admit, it was not always a comfortable feeling reading and rating my relationship at times, it was extremely helpful and in turn made me realize my relationship’s strengths as well. I believe it has set my husband and I, two very new newlyweds,up for solid, long term success .
18 people found this helpful
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- Bw12535
- 21-06-20
eyes opened to see what sinks and steers romance
I have been married 12 years and have had a good relationship until I was told by my wife she didn't love me anymore. I have done the activities through this book and have heard what my wife longed for. I didn't know what questions to ask to get to the root at our disconnection. Thank you to John Gottman
14 people found this helpful
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- Amazon Customer
- 15-05-20
Buy hard copy
So many lists! Ugh. Have pen and paper ready to take lotttsssss of list notes.
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- Rebecca D.
- 02-03-20
Topics hard to hear but set me in the right direction
When I first started the book I was hopeful but I realized I was the cause of much of my marital trouble. This was very hard to hear, I knew it was true but the affirmation is hard. It did set me in the right direction to change. Something I had never been able to do on my own. Many other books try to convey this but this one worked for me and I am grateful.
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- jynlyn
- 02-09-20
not a good audiobook
This is not a good buy for an audiobook. There are lots of lists and questionnaires. I find it hard to follow along as he reads off 40 questions for you and your spouse to ask each other and discuss. I recommend buying the book or kindle version. Otherwise, lots of good information. Beware: stereotypes like women are emotional and men are stonewallers are rampant but I imagine he's seen this first hand in his studies. Good news is he tries to release some of them by encouraging men to take advice from their wives and wives to....well i haven't gotten that far yet. Happy reading!
8 people found this helpful
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- Tad
- 29-10-20
Evidence Based, Practical Principles
listening to this audio book has given me great hope for my marriage, fostered a new appreciation for my wife, and given me skills that extend to all of my relationships and interactions. This book should be required reading/listening for all married couples.
5 people found this helpful
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- Joel Dormer
- 11-05-20
good read for good marriages
This should be required reading for all couples before getting married. A great step forward in understanding why relationships can be so hard and how to make them work.
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- ITGuyEric
- 03-09-20
Amazing Resource
This was an amazing book. The examples and case studies really help me look at my own relationship in a clearer light. My only critique is to put all the exercises into a PDF and leave them out of the read audiobook.
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- Mary S.
- 24-06-20
This explains sooooo much!
I wouldn't consider my marriage on the brick of breaking but we also have so struggles. I think the most helpful take away from this book for me was that it is OKAY to have these struggles and that even rewarding marriages have them. Personally the scientific backing for this book and the years of research that when into developing specific techniques will make me much more likely to pick them into practice and I don't think they are limited to only marriage relationships. Powerful stuff!
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- SSS
- 08-05-20
Must read for everyone
If you are in or planning to be in a relationship. These principles should lead you. My humble opinion is that all modern relationship should be based on these principles.
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