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The People Pleaser's Guide to Loving Others Without Losing Yourself

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The People Pleaser's Guide to Loving Others Without Losing Yourself

By: Dr. Mike Bechtle
Narrated by: Mike Bechtle
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About this listen

We all want other people to like us and think well of us. But when we depend on the praise, admiration, or appreciation of others for our sense of self-worth, we become trapped in an exhausting and debilitating cycle of people-pleasing relationships where we always give and rarely receive. The most common advice we hear - Start putting your own needs first! - doesn't work, because we do love helping other people!

Thankfully, the solution to the people pleaser's "problem" isn't to fundamentally change who you are - it's to fundamentally change where you find your worth. In this freeing book, Dr. Mike Bechtle shows you stop letting your fears of rejection, criticism, invisibility, or inadequacy drive your actions and start rebuilding your sense of self-worth from the inside out. When you do, you'll discover that what you once thought of as a struggle is actually a strength.

©2021 Mike Bechtle (P)2021 eChristian Christian Living Christianity Personal Development Self-Esteem

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Very interesting perspective about the importance of finding who you are behind your behaviours. How you can move through the world without losing yourself in how you are perceived by others.

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This book has given me a huge workload but it’s one I want to do.

Lots to work on

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The best people pleasing self help book out there!! Really gave me the tools to change my thoughts

Excellent

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This book found me when I was looking for a distraction from a heartbreak. It helped me to look in the mirror and address some things about my character that I didn't know was there however might have been some of the reason past relationships had not worked out.

The book is well written and does not sound like one of those typical "self help" books. The story telling is relatable and also provoking.

I would read this again and follow the tips placed in here.

I needed this and it found me

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