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The Mother Next Door

Medicine, Deception, and Munchausen by Proxy

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The Mother Next Door

By: Andrea Dunlop, Mike Weber
Narrated by: Andrea Dunlop
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About this listen

This program is read by the author.

A groundbreaking work of narrative nonfiction that investigates Munchausen by Proxy from the host and creator of the award-winning true crime podcast Nobody Should Believe Me.


"I devoured this chilling yet critically important book in 48 hours, unable to believe what I was reading. Dunlop and Weber have written a powerful, unflinching deep dive into our country’s systemic failure to protect children from medical abuse."
Stephanie Wrobel, bestselling author of Darling Rose Gold

No bond is more sacred than that between a mother and child. And no one is more sympathetic than a mother whose child faces a life-threatening illness. But what if the mother is the cause of the illness? What if the sympathy is the point?

Munchausen by proxy (MBP) has fascinated and horrified both professionals and the general public since this disturbing form of child abuse was first identified. But even as the public has been captivated by these tales of abuse and deception, there remains widespread misinformation and confusion about MBP. Are these mothers unfeeling psychopaths, or sick women who need help? And more important, how can we protect the children whose lives are at stake?

The Mother Next Door offers a groundbreaking look at MBP from an unlikely duo: a Seattle novelist whose own family was torn apart by it, and the Texas detective who has worked on more medical child abuse cases than anyone in the nation. Readers ride along on three high-stakes MPB investigations; through riveting reporting and shocking stories from the family members, friends, and doctors caught in the blast zone of these unthinkable acts, a twisted portrait of motherhood and deceit is revealed.

With help from some of the top MBP experts in the world, Dunlop and Weber uncover the complex maze of psychological, systemic, and cultural issues that compound MBP and offer solutions for how we might find our way out.

A Macmillan Audio production from St. Martin’s Press.

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Critic reviews

<p>"I have been an admirer of Andrea Dunlop’s fiercely original work for years. Rarely is someone able to strike such a perfect balance of rigorous research, courageous fact-finding, and compelling narrative storytelling. I have no doubt that this book will be known as the canonical Munchausen by Proxy text." <b>—</b><b>Amanda Montell, <i>New York Times</i> bestselling author of <i>The Age of Magical Overthinking</i> and host of "Sounds Like a Cult"</b><br><br>"I was hooked from page one until the very end. A page-turning, jaw-dropping examination of MBP, our healthcare system, and the ways that perpetrators hide in plain sight." <b>—</b><b>Nora McInerny, bestselling author of <i>Bad Vibes Only</i>, and host of "Terrible, Thanks for Asking"</b><br><br>"A truly vital, groundbreaking, and riveting contribution to the literature on child abuse. This immensely readable book is the most important literary work since the MBP term was coined fifty years ago. <i>The Mother Next Door</i> shines like a beacon." <b>—Marc D. Feldman, M.D., coauthor of <i>Dying to be Ill: True Stories of Medical Deception</i></b><br><b><br>Praise for </b><i><b>Nobody Should Believe Me</b></i><br>"A rich and harrowing chronicle." <b>—<i>New York Times</i></b><br><br><b>Praise for Andrea Dunlop’s fiction</b><br>"Twisty and thought-provoking." <b>—Sara Shepard on <i>Women Are the Fiercest Creatures</i></b><br><br>"Searing, gripping…a complicated tale of sisterhood unlike any told before." <b>—Taylor Jenkins Reid on <i>We Came Here to Forget</i></b><br><br>"Part family saga, part racy, salacious page-turner." <b>—Caroline Kepnes on <i>She Regrets Nothing</i></b></p>
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Andrea's podcast is very helpful to explain mumchausen by proxy. this book is able to go back into so much more detail about just how hard it is to protect these children.

really important work

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As always stories are told with Andrea’s unique insights and perspective, recounting the details with empathy.

Wonderful storytelling

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The read was fascinating and very informative about medical child abuse. It’s shocking how common it appears to be.

Informative

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informative and interesting to follow. found this book through her podcast "Nobody should believe me" which I also recommend

informative

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The author made some good points about medical misogyny and how bias can prevent appropriate patient care, only to then talk about ‘trans’ patients and ‘cis’ white males. How are we supposed to take a book about child medical abuse seriously when the author nods along with a ridiculous ideology that has led to the biggest medical scandal in recent years? Children are being medicalised for simply liking the toys and clothes of the opposite sex by their Transhausen-by-Proxy parents, and in a book about Munchausen-by-Proxy, somehow the author manages to miss the connection.

Cannot be taken seriously

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