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The Gentle Discipline Book

How to raise co-operative, polite and helpful children

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The Gentle Discipline Book

By: Sarah Ockwell-Smith
Narrated by: Katy Sobey
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Discipline is a vital part of child-rearing, but many parents misunderstand how to use it and attempt to control their child's behaviour via a combination of punishment and motivation. Yet while this traditional approach may appear to produce quick results, it can potentially damage the child and, in the long term, leave parents with a far worse problem than they had initially.

The Gentle Discipline Book analyses common discipline techniques and explains why so many are ineffective. It focuses on helping parents understand why children misbehave and how to respond in a way that will help them work with - rather than against - their child.

Gentle discipline focuses on teaching and learning rather than punishing. With plenty of practical advice and case studies from real families, it will enable parents to set boundaries and enforce them with compassion and respect; it also demonstrates how parents can inspire children to be better and do better and how to set a great example for them. Gentle parenting is not about being a pushover - it means understanding children and having realistic expectations of them as well as responding appropriately and consistently.

The book covers a range of ages, and the principles it contains work with toddlers, tweens and teenagers equally well - because it helps parents respond to the unique needs of each individual child. As well as providing a framework that will enable parents to become experts in their own child's behaviour, The Gentle Discipline Book provides solutions to common problems such as whining and sulking, aggressive behaviour, refusal to do things, rudeness, sibling rivalry, lying, low self-esteem and a lack of confidence.

©2016 Sarah Ockwell-Smith (P)2016 Little Brown Book Group
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I find Sarah's books so helpful when I find we are struggling, they always get us back on track with little effort, just a change of mindset on my behalf.

Please stop using Katy Sobey to narrate though, she is dull as dishwater. That's the second book she's almost ruined for me (Gut was the other...she makes it so....dry).

helpful from Sarah Ockwell-Smith, as always

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Absolutely couldn't recommend it enough.
Lifesaver, sanity saver, eye opener.
Came when I needed the most. Thank you so much for writing this. I'm sure I'll refer back to it many times in the future

One of the best books ever

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I love the perspective here. But there are so many 'don'ts' without enough of what to do instead

Would recommend as a start but needs more

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I enjoyed listening to this and learnt a few things I can put into practice. Some good advice.
The narration was okay but I cringed every time she put on an accent for what the parents said, really no need for it!

Some good advice

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Fantastic book, this has turned my way of thinking completely around. also has helped me immensely as a teacher, although i purchased it as a parent thank you!

life changing

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