Since You've Been Gone

Took a while but I loved the ending!

SINCE YOU’VE BEEN GONE was actually my first Morgan Matson book (yes, yes, I know)! I had purchased the audio a few weeks prior to reading it and when it was time to for a new audiobook and I happened to be in a contemporary mood, the timing was right to start SINCE YOU’VE BEEN GONE!

I really wasn’t sure what to expect. Having never read one of her books before, I was going in a little blind with no knowledge of Morgan Matson’s writing style or what might pass for a typical character or concept. All I knew was that she’s a fan-favorite and I felt a lot of pressure to enjoy the book (especially seeing it has a 4.21 rating on Goodreads which is pretty high), so when I started listening to the book and found myself struggling, I really started to worry.

I really thought I was going to be the black sheep on this book. I had a really hard time with the beginning, especially with the characters. I never made it to the point where I thought I would put the book down, but it was really just a middle-of-the-road contemporary read for about the entire first half. I really had a hard time with Emily and how awkward she was and I found her actions cringe-worthy to witness. Other characters didn’t quite click for me either. Emily’s parents seemed silly and like characterizations rather than real people. Collins was goofy and seemed like a bit too much for me and I really didn’t care for him either. And even though Sloane wasn’t physically present in the book at the time, the flashbacks to her interactions with Emily bothered me as well. The writing just didn’t work well for me throughout the first half and scenes felt forced instead of just playing out naturally. BUT the good thing was that I had plenty of friends who had enjoyed the book and promised me it would get better so despite my hesitations, I was ready for the book to improve!

And those friends turned out to be right! I finally found some cute moments between Emily and Frank about halfway through and really started to enjoy their friendship and whatever might be developing between them… then I started to enjoy their relationship even more and before I knew it, the whole book was finally taking shape. Characters really started to feel real instead of just a collection of traits on a page. Relationships were really blossoming — not just between Emily and Frank. I loved the new friendships that Emily was forming in Sloane’s absence and really all of the characters grew quite a bit. I was really impressed with how much each one had changed and felt so much more realistic, but I was sad that I had felt so disconnected from them in beginning. I felt like the growth was exponential but I had that lingering memory of how much they had annoyed me in the first half of the book.

I did enjoy the second half of the book but I just wish I had been able to feel those things in the beginning! Not to mention I felt like one scene was directly out of ANNA AND THE FRENCH KISS (although it’s not that like scene hasn’t happened anywhere else… but I’m so ANNA-obsessed that I couldn’t NOT see it) and a bit of a stunt there at the end that was totally insane for someone Emily’s age (I wonder if there were any consequences for that…) but I just let it go and rolled with it.

I was very on the fence with how I felt about Emily and Sloane’s friendship. I honestly don’t really think I’ve had a friendship like that. A lot of my close friendships were a group of three of us (or more) and I feel like I didn’t have ONE best friend that I spent all of time with who was just MY best friend. Sometimes their friendship felt too clingy for me (mostly likely because I didn’t have the same experience so I didn’t quite relate) and I also didn’t like how Sloane felt so much more dominant than Emily (although I totally understand that). I felt like their friendship has some great moments and other times, I didn’t like it at all.

I guess you could say it was an interesting read for me! I actually kind of liked that my opinion on the book didn’t seem to align with so many others because I was able to have my own take on the book. Sometimes when I love the same book that everyone else loves, it isn’t that the book doesn’t deserve it but sometimes I feel like my opinion isn’t unique so it was fun to bounce my reactions off of other people and see how our feelings differed. I was hesitant in the beginning but upon finishing, I’m excited to read those other Matson books that I have on my shelves! I’m not sure they’re high-priority or that I will love them like everyone else loves her work but I’m also open to leaving my expectations at the door and seeing where the books take me!

2 of 2 people found this review helpful

Perfect summer reading!

I started and just couldn't stop!

I don't know why I was so immersed...maybe it was the characters, the story, the narration or all of it together but I just
had to keep listening.

It was cute and sweet and fun, and filled with that amazing nostalgic feeling of summers during high school. I miss that feeling, and would love to read more books that capture that.

So this one is a definite two thumbs up!

2 of 2 people found this review helpful

Not bad

The Narrator had a bit of a twang and it took me back to my time in Virginia. Instead of saying "didn't," she pronounced it as "di-unt." It's not a problem, it's just personal preference. It bugged me at first, but I got used to it. The story was alright, but I sometimes got confused when there was a flashback and forgot what was going on. I was kind of disappointed with the ending, but it made sense.

1 of 1 people found this review helpful

Good

Love it . This book is one of my must read books . It's about two girl and their friendship . I enjoyed it so mush
The beginning not that good but the end really good

1 of 1 people found this review helpful

Enjoyed more than I anticipated!

Needing to familiarize myself with young adult contemporary realistic fiction, I chose Matson's Since You've Been Gone. Although well -crafted and tastefully done, occasional references to alcohol, nudity, and attraction make this book not suited for younger readers. The story follows 17 year old Emily in an unusual quest through which she finds herself challenged to step out of her comfort zone. Ultimately, this journey becomes a path for developing into her true self. Great!

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Great story..

Wanted to make you start your own list! And start a new thing! Fun read!

Was hooked from Start!

I really love this book. Just a fun and light read, that teaches a little about relaxing and enjoying life. I think I could relate to the story and that's probably why I enjoyed it so much!!!

It’s Officially Summer!

I loved this!! I instantly fell in love with Emily, but I’m still a bit perturbed by Sloane’s actions, even with an (anticlimactic) explanation. “Since You’ve Been Gone” is an amazing coming-of-age summer read!

Emily develops immensely and I’m so happy that I was able to go on the journey with her. Although ‘the list’ is what coaxed Emily out of her comfortable introverted shell and into a strong and confident young woman, it was all with her own initiative. Sloane wasn’t the one pushing her to do anything, instead she simply left without a word and refused to answer any phone calls, text messages, or emails. I still have a bitter taste in my mouth for her, but it ended happily so I’ll eventually let it go.

I also had trouble with the main love interest, Frank, since he was with his girlfriend throughout the entire book. (Long distance or not doesn’t matter—He was with her. Full stop.) Besides that, I really like Frank as a person, a friend, and a love interest when he’s flying single. The side characters, Collins and Dawn, were a lot of fun and made everything more enjoyable. I was laughing out loud and tearing up at all the right times. Mistakes were made, hearts were broken, but everyone turned out okay. Go read it—you might just like it too!

Side note: My main quibble when reading was the excessive use of writing tics rather than coming up with creative ways to express emotions. I developed an eye twitch every time a character “let out a breath” or “furrowed or raised their eyebrows”. The noted breathing is practically a prerequisite for YA, but there’s still a line that shouldn’t be crossed into utter annoyance and distraction.

Since you've been gone

This was my second Morgan Matson book and I loved it.

The character's were great and the setting's were awesome and the dares were fun and out of her comfort zone.

The friendships made me smile and laugh.

The narrative for this was really good I loved it and cannot wait to listen to it again.

worst structured book

it was so hard to want to listen to this book and stay engaged. the chapters are 30 minutes to over an hour long and some chapters have time jumps in the middle of them. i found that the story took so long to progress and the actual mystery of what happened and where is Sloan to be the most boring part of the entire book. this story was way overhyped.