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Selfie

How We Became So Self-Obsessed and What It's Doing to Us

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Selfie

By: Will Storr
Narrated by: Jack Hawkins
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We live in the age of the individual.

We are supposed to be slim, prosperous, happy, extroverted and popular. This is our culture's image of the perfect self. We see this person everywhere: in advertising, in the press, all over social media. We're told that to be this person, you just have to follow your dreams, that our potential is limitless, that we are the source of our own success.

But this model of the perfect self can be extremely dangerous. People are suffering under the torture of this impossible fantasy. Unprecedented social pressure is leading to increases in depression and suicide. Where does this ideal come from? Why is it so powerful? Is there any way to break its spell?

To answer these questions, Selfie takes us from the shores of Ancient Greece, through the Christian Middle Ages, to the self-esteem evangelists of 1980s California, the rise of narcissism and the selfie generation, and right up to the era of hyperindividualistic neoliberalism in which we live now.

It tells the extraordinary story of the person we all know so intimately - our self.

Exclusive to the audiobook, Selfie includes a unique 15-minute interview with the author, Will Storr, and reader, Jack Hawkins.

©2017 Will Storr (P)2017 Macmillan Digital Audio
Anthropology Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Social Psychology & Interactions Thought-Provoking Inspiring

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Critic reviews

"Fascinating." ( The Times)
"Thoughtful and engaging." ( Guardian)
"Brilliant." ( Evening Standard)
"Electrifying." ( Financial Times)
"Approaching genius." ( Sunday Times)
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The book overall is really fascinating. I learned so much new about or Western Self. The only downer are some veeery long passages, in particular about Eselan, that should have been shortened. I don‘t need to know entire histories in order to get the gist.
Also a few times too biased. To discredit safe spaces at universities by using the most ridiculous examples is very deceptive.

Fascinating account - perhaps too long

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An interesting book but, like others who have written reviews, I wish I had read it instead. Even an automated voice narrating this story may have proved less torturous in places.

The problem is not simply that the narrator does accents - it’s that his enthusiasm is undiminished by the fact he has no natural talent for them. From one chapter to the next, I groaned inwardly whenever he began quoting a new interviewee who had the misfortune of being based anywhere except the UK. Even then, I suspect on at least one occasion he chose to introduce a Scottish accent when nothing in the text justified it. It made whole swathes of the audiobook almost impossible to concentrate on as the narrator blundered his way through barely intelligible approximations of American, Australian and Irish accents.

His tiresome dedication to his art had some limitations, however, as I noticed with some amusement that he did not attempt to do an accent for a Korean professor interviewed in the book. In truth, it would have hardly been any less crude (or at times inappropriate) than his other performances. This perhaps exposes a blindspot suffered by audiobook producers - would this kind of excruciatingly stereotypical accent, performed so poorly, be appropriate in other contexts? Given the answer is clearly no, it should raise questions about why it’s allowed to persist at all. Particularly when it makes a good book almost unlistenable.

Why the accents, why?

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This is a very readable book that covers a lot of ground in an immensely entertaining and personal way.

Loved this

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Fascinating exploration into the history and psychology of the western obsession with the self. Punctuated by personal stories about the author's own struggles which I'm sure many will empathise with.

Highly Recommend

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Interesting bitesize concepts book. The author really does not like catholics and has very little knowledge of the base concepts, evidenced by certain statements he made - surprising for a boy that was born and raised a Catholic - that being said - his dislike unbeknownst to him has set the religion in a good light in the book

Interesting insights

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