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Overcoming Unwanted Intrusive Thoughts

A CBT-Based Guide to Getting over Frightening, Obsessive, or Disturbing Thoughts
Narrated by: Senn Annis
Length: 5 hrs and 23 mins
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Summary

You are not your thoughts! In this powerful book, two anxiety experts offer proven-effective cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) skills to help you get unstuck from disturbing thoughts, overcome the shame these thoughts can bring, and reduce your anxiety.

If you suffer from unwanted, intrusive, frightening, or even disturbing thoughts, you might worry about what these thoughts mean about you. Thoughts can seem like messages - are they trying to tell you something? But the truth is that they are just thoughts, and don’t necessarily mean anything. Sane and good people have them. If you are someone who is plagued by thoughts you don’t want - thoughts that scare you, or thoughts you can’t tell anyone about - this book may change your life. 

In this compassionate guide, you’ll discover the different kinds of disturbing thoughts, myths that surround your thoughts, and how your brain has a tendency to get “stuck” in a cycle of unwanted rumination. You’ll also learn why common techniques to get rid of these thoughts can backfire. And finally, you’ll learn powerful cognitive behavioral skills to help you cope with and move beyond your thoughts, so you can focus on living the life you want. Your thoughts will still occur, but you will be better able to cope with them - without dread, guilt, or shame. 

If you have unwanted thoughts, you should remember that you aren’t alone. In fact, there are millions of people just like you -good people who have awful thoughts, gentle people with violent thoughts, and sane people with “crazy” thoughts. This book will show you how to move past your thoughts so you can reclaim your life! 

This book has been selected as an Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies Self-Help Book Recommendation - an honor bestowed on outstanding self-help books that are consistent with cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) principles and that incorporate scientifically tested strategies for overcoming mental health difficulties. Used alone or in conjunction with therapy, our books offer powerful tools listeners can use to jump-start changes in their lives.

©2017 Sally M. Winston, PsyD and Martin N. Seif, PhD (P)2020 New Harbinger Publications

Critic reviews

“This important book is essential and mandatory reading for anyone affected by unwanted and intrusive thoughts, and their health providers. The authors crystallize decades of experience into a perfectly clear and readable guide. The solution to this misunderstood problem is in this book.” (Joseph A. Adams, MD, medical director at Baltimore Health Systems and Step By Step of Maryland, LLC, and past president at Smoke Free Maryland)

“I wish I would have had access to this book twenty years ago! Sally Winston and Martin Seif have put all the pieces of the puzzle together to help people understand and overcome unwanted intrusive thoughts. This is a must-read book, packed with information to help people suffering with anxiety-provoking intrusive thoughts, as well as clinicians who are trying to help them.” (Kimberly J. Morrow, LCSW, maintains a private practice in Erie, PA; specializes in the treatment of anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD); provides training and case consultation for clinicians through www.anxietytraining.com; and is author of Face It and Feel It)

“It turns out that commonsense approaches to stopping our worries, such as pushing thoughts away, arguing with them, or seeking reassurance, actually feed these worries and help them grow. Sally Winston and Martin Seif—two of the brightest minds in our field - deliver a simple yet powerful two-step process for change.” (Reid Wilson, PhD, author of Stopping the Noise in Your Head)

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Good to understand Intrusive thoughts

Great at dispelling myths. Things you think would help, only seem to make intrusive thoughts worse. Narration not bad.

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  • 11-09-20

A must read/listen

This helped me understand that my thoughts are nothing but thoughts. The author does a great job at helping you observe your thoughts in a non-judgemental way. Offers some practical and humorous applications too.

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very useful

very useful to understand intrusive thoughts. worked very well reading this and having therapy

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life changing.

stuggle daily with intrusive thoughts for past 15 years.this book has given me hope for future.thank you so much

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  • danielle
  • 29-09-20

It does help

When I first started reading this book, I have been already talking to a counselor but I wanted more. I have gone through unwanted thoughts 4 years ago but never knew what they were until now. This book has given me a different outlook that my counselor could not touch on. I recommend it to people who think they are alone with their thoughts. You are not.

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  • Peace2012
  • 24-09-20

Very very very very ..............helpful. Thanks. Please read/listen to this if you’re struggling with thoughts.

Very very very very ..............helpful. Thanks. Please read/listen to this if you’re struggling with thoughts.

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  • lolo610
  • 28-07-20

Very helpful

It’s very helpful, good narration and will make you rethink how you handle Anxiety. One of the best books I have read on mental health.

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  • Christine G.
  • 23-10-20

Amazing!

I absolutely loved this book. The narrator is soothing and empathetic, and makes things very relatable. I start ERP with an OCD specialist next month but this was amazing to read to begin to understand why things happen and to have practical steps to help keep me on track in every day use, even when I don’t have therapy that day. To anyone struggling, I highly suggest listening to this book. You are never ever alone!

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 16-10-20

Great book on our thoughts and everything around them!

For me this book hit the bullseye on intrusive thoughts. I had many questions and concerns about my intrusive thoughts. I wasn’t even halfway into it before I began understanding and feeling better about my thoughts and myself in general! I would recommend this book to anyone even if they don’t have “sticky minds”. The authors not only help you understand intrusive thoughts but explain a lot about our thoughts and minds.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 01-09-20

Essential knowledge for someone with OCD

This book is wonderful, no other way to explain the kind way they educate you about the actual roots of anxiety and OCD.

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  • Daniel R. Kempenich
  • 18-07-20

therapist here

as a therapist I recommend this book on a regular basis. the concepts behind how OCD operates and the strategies to overcome it are spot on.

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  • Jamal
  • 21-06-20

Really helped

A must read for those suffering, it really made me understand what I’m going through!

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  • Brandi
  • 12-06-20

Well written

Interesting and helpful. will be sharing with anybody willing to read it. I think everyone should read this because it applies to everyone. we have all been there. this makes you you understand why and how to resolve it

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  • Jennifer Jones
  • 19-05-20

So glad I found this!

I can finally sleep again without laying awake for hours at night dealing with intrusive thoughts.