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My Parent the Peacock

Discovery and Recovery from Narcissistic Parenting

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By: Kathleen Saxton
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'A compelling portrait of narcissism' Charlotte Cripps, The Independent

'I made notes in the margin - "Yes! This!" - on almost every page. Susannah Jowitt, The Daily Mail

The scars inflicted on childhood by a parent with narcissistic tendencies are lasting - but they don't have to define your future. My Parent the Peacock is a compassionate, insightful and clear-eyed guide to recovery that validates your lived experience while offering practical steps towards healing and freedom.

Demythologising some of the ideas around narcissistic behaviours, acclaimed therapist Kathleen Saxton starts by explaining what narcissism is, and isn't, and why it seems to be on the increase. She offers you support to understand how having a narcissistic parent can impact your early development, and how family constellations are shaped in such households (were you the Golden Child, or the Scapegoated Child?). Pulling everything together into practical and healing strategies for moving forward, the book also covers:

* validation and self-care
* setting boundaries and expectations
* Listening to your own voice
* Breaking the generational patterns

You can escape generational trauma and find freedom; take the first steps today for a healthier, happier future.©2025 Psyched Ventures Limited Dysfunctional Families Mental Health Motherhood Parenting & Families Parents & Adult Children Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
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A compelling portrait of narcissism.
I made notes in the margin - 'Yes! This!' - on almost every page.
In My Parent the Peacock, Kathleen Saxton shines a light on the hidden wounds of children raised by narcissistic parents. With clinical expertise and deep compassion, she unpacks the lasting impact of these relationships and offers a path to understanding and healing. A vital, unflinching read for anyone seeking to break the cycle and protect the next generation.
The definitive guide to how to deal with the narcissist in your life, especially if they are your parent, and come out stronger on the other side. This book is incisive, substantive, practical, and profoundly moving. More than just a diagnosis, this is a path to recovery. Saxton empowers those affected to reclaim their voice, rediscover their identity, and believe in the possibility of healing. I finished the book feeling enlightened, uplifted, and deeply encouraged; a powerful reminder that even the most painful childhood can be the beginning of a fulfilling life.
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The content and narration was perfectly pitched. The book is laid out so it's easy to understand and listen to. The subject matter so simply explained and in my case, much of it so relatable. It offers and an understanding and solutions for going forward. This will be bought for the book shelf!

so insightful

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If you have just an inkling that this might be what you experienced, then I can’t recommend this book enough. It’s well worth persevering through the early chapter for the background and understanding of narcissism, before making your way to the later chapters which can bring such personal insight and liberation. Wishing you deep recovery and peace if this book speaks to your personal experience.

Vital insight and a powerful route to recovery.

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I learned a lot from this book, but there was a lot of emphasis on turning your back on the narcissist in your life and that’s not something I’m able to do. I found that difficult.

Interesting book

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This book is so thorough, thoughtfully written with great care and attention to all those who may be impacted and I am so grateful to have found it. The information shared on the book has brought clarity, acknowledgment and relief to questions I have held privately for a long time. A wonderful gift to those who may need support and a guide of where to seek more help. Highly recommend.

Exceptional book

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I have listened and I thought I had done the worked needed but I realise I still have work to do.
It’s helped me realise I have made some very good choices in life and where I need to do more and I thank you for this.

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