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Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life

The Chump Lady's Survival Guide

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Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life

By: Tracy Schorn
Narrated by: Laura Copland
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Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life is a no-nonsense self-help guide for anyone who has ever been cheated on. Here's advice not based on saving your relationship after infidelity - but saving your sanity.

When it comes to cheating, a lot of the attention is focused on cheaters - their unmet needs or their challenges with monogamy. But Tracy Schorn (aka Chump Lady) lampoons such blameshifting and puts the focus squarely on the cheated-upon (chumps) and their needs. Full of solid advice that champions self-respect, Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life offers a fresh voice for chumps who want (and need) a new message about infidelity. This book will offer advice on stupid sh*t cheaters say and how to respond, rookie mistakes of the recently chumped and how to disarm your fears, why chumps take the blame and how to protect yourself, and more.

Full of snark, sass, and real wisdom about how to bounce back after the gut blow of betrayal, Schorn is the friend who guides you through this nightmare and gives you hope for a better life ahead.

©2016 Tracy Schorn (P)2017 Tantor
Divorce & Separation Love, Dating & Attraction Personal Development Personal Success Relationships Infidelity Inspiring Divorce Divorce Recovery

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Please, please read this book if you’ve been cheated on! Thankyou Tracy for being so honest and writing exactly what I’ve been thinking but couldn’t put into words. I’m also a double chump and just nodded and said ‘yes!’ so many times throughout the book. I’d recommend the audiobook for listening in the car and on the move to reinforce the message that cheaters cheat and isn’t it about time to get them out of our heads? No more hopium for me… I’ve now lost that addiction! Move on and get over it! Sounds harsh but it’s exactly what I needed to hear. I especially recommend this book for partners of narcissists or those with NPD traits who are serial cheaters. Get out and live your best life!

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so my cheating husband has been lying to me, all the lies that I should have known better about this book made me realise it's not my fault like he had been telling me...I finally found the guts to let him go....would reccomend this to everyone who has been cheated on! it's a brilliant no nonsense advice on what his lies actually mean and an understanding that I'm not the only one this has happened to and how to deal with my narcissist ex.

totally brilliant!

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Best book on infidelity I have ever read. It proved that it's not just me and I am not going mad. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

You saved me!

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great eye opening book on cheaters. Great insight and sense of humor. Really enjoyed the narration.

brilliantly narrated

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just brilliant. has given me a clearer perspective on my situation. knowing there are so many fellow chumps out there dealing with the same pain as a result of a narcassist and their actions provides much clarity.

brilliantly supportive book

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