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I Am Not Anxious, I Am Not Attached

Master Your Mind and Emotions

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I Am Not Anxious, I Am Not Attached

By: Donald Pinkman
Narrated by: Russ Jankovitz
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Finally break the cycle of anxiety and toxic attachment—without losing yourself.

Do you overthink every text, fearing you said the wrong thing or pushed someone away? Do you feel anxious when things are “too quiet” in a relationship, or when someone pulls away even slightly? Have you tried to calm down, let go, or “just move on” but nothing sticks and the pain always returns?

Let’s be honest: Anxiety and attachment struggles don’t go away with deep breaths and vague self-help advice. You’ve probably read the books, listened to the podcasts, journaled, meditated and still found yourself waking up with a knot in your stomach and a mind that won’t shut up.

The truth is, anxiety isn’t about “being weak.” Attachment wounds aren’t about “being dramatic.” They’re survival responses. And unless we go deep to the real roots, they’ll keep running the show.

I Am Not Anxious, I Am Not Attached gives you the tools to finally quiet the chaos in your mind, detach from unhealthy relationships, and take back control—mentally, emotionally, and relationally.

I Am Not Anxious isn’t just another explanation—it’s a lifeline. With raw honesty and clear tools, it guides you through high-functioning anxiety and shows you how to quiet the chaos, let go of control, and feel safe in your own mind again.

I Am Not Attached isn’t just a mindset—it’s a powerful path to emotional freedom. True peace doesn’t come from getting others to love you more. It comes from detaching with love, validating yourself from within, and standing strong in your own self-worth. Order your copy now!

©2025 Donald Pinkman (P)2025 Donald Pinkman
Anxiety Disorders Emotions Mental Health Personal Development Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Emotionally Gripping Inspiring
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As a mom of three, my mind rarely rests, this book spoke to exactly what I’ve been feeling. It helped me understand my anxiety and attachment patterns in a deeper way. The tools are simple but powerful, and the message is clear: I can feel calm and whole without needing constant reassurance. A really grounding listen.

Helpful and Reassuring

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Clear, no-fluff advice that helped me manage anxiety and attachment issues. Easy to follow and genuinely useful, great listen for anyone feeling overwhelmed.

Practical and grounding

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As a high school tutor, I often see students dealing with anxiety and self-worth issues. This book helped me understand those patterns better in myself too. It’s honest, practical, and calming without overcomplicating things. A helpful listen if you're trying to quiet your mind and feel more in control emotionally.

Grounded and Reassuring

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The book addresses real emotional struggles with compassion and offers some useful insights for managing anxiety and attachment. However, much of the content felt repetitive and lacked depth in certain areas. As a doctor, I appreciated the intention, but I was hoping for more practical, evidence-based strategies. A decent starting point, especially for those new to the topic.

Helpful ideas, but somewhat repetitive

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As a high school teacher, I’ve seen how anxiety and attachment issues affect young people, but this book helped me recognize those patterns in myself too. It’s clear, honest, and gave me real tools to manage my thoughts and emotions. A grounding listen I’d recommend to anyone feeling overwhelmed.

Practical and Reassuring

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