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How to Talk to Kids

10 Ways to Get Your Child to Listen to You

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How to Talk to Kids

By: Rachel Burgess
Narrated by: Millie Green
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In an age where technology rules with an iron fist and attention spans are becoming shorter and shorter, it is becoming increasingly challenging for parents to not only keep their child’s attention but also to get them to listen. And it all starts with how we talk to them.

Believe it or not, how you speak to your child determines whether they will listen to you or not. You are at war with outside influences on your child’s behaviors and reactions. For this reason, wise and tactical approaches are recommended to not just win your child over but to have their utter and complete respect.

With a no-nonsense, straightforward approach, How to Talk to Kids is the ultimate guide for both new and seasoned parents. Rachel Burgess, a mother of three, offers sound advice and strategies on getting your child to listen.

Some of the areas explored in this book are:

  • The reason your child is not listening to you
  • Practicing active listening
  • Understanding the difference between discipline and punishment
  • Mistakes made when listening to your kids
  • Managing your anger
  • Understanding your child’s psychology
  • Effective consequences
  • Teaching good manners
  • Making conversation with your kids a priority

Whether you are at your wit's end with a child who talks back and does the opposite of what they are told or you merely want to sharpen your parenting skills to create a bond and mutual respect with your child, How to Talk to Kids is the guide for you. Rachel advises from an empirical perspective with a style that is emphatic, instructional, and exhortative.

By the end of his book, parents will not only be more knowledgeable and understanding about the “why” of their child’s behaviors, but will also take a step back to examine themselves and their own approach toward communication with their child.

©2019 Rachel Burgess (P)2019 Rachel Burgess
Communication & Social Skills Personal Development Relationships

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This is a no-nonsense, straightforward approach, how to get your child to listen and understand!

Shows how to ensure your child practices active listening and also helps parents do the same thing.

We found it particularly useful for anger management and dealing with stressful situations.

So, if you want a well-behaved child with good manners this is the book for you.

No nonsense approach!

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The book How to Talk to Kids offers some good ideas about one can talk to kids so they will listen to one. The tips are very simple and easy to implement. Kids get distracted lot so making sure that there is a direct eye contact when one is talking to them is crucial.
Very practical and relatable!

Practical and Relatable!

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Very valuable tips and tricks that will help me to become a better parent and communicate better with my kids. A great book would definitely recommend to new parents!

Great Insights

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This book has some excellent ideas for parents especially if you are struggling for ideas on how to deal with your children in certain situations. I particularly found chapter 5 interesting as it reminded me of how I think sometimes and how that's related to my parents, parenting style.!
The only thing I found a little negative was the tone of the writing at times. it just comes across as a little negative towards the parents, as in its your fault if your child does/doesn't do something. I personally feel that we should supprt/reassure patents when they are struggling and not blame their efforts. as it is effectively illustrated in chapter 5 that we learn from our patents and sometimes it is hard to break that cycle!! overall a very good book.

Good bit a little repetitive!

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This was a very useful guide to understand how to communicate effectively with kids.

I have many friends going through the steep learning curve of figuring out how to talk to their children - on their level.

I will take the lessons learned and apply it to tutoring - particularly active listening and how to deal with difficult situations in a calm and sensible manner.

I would certainly recommend this guide.

How to be in the now with your kids

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