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  • 10 Ways to Get Your Child to Listen to You
  • By: Rachel Burgess
  • Narrated by: Millie Green
  • Length: 3 hrs and 9 mins
  • 4.6 out of 5 stars (28 ratings)
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How to Talk to Kids

By: Rachel Burgess
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Summary

In an age where technology rules with an iron fist and attention spans are becoming shorter and shorter, it is becoming increasingly challenging for parents to not only keep their child’s attention but also to get them to listen. And it all starts with how we talk to them.

Believe it or not, how you speak to your child determines whether they will listen to you or not. You are at war with outside influences on your child’s behaviors and reactions. For this reason, wise and tactical approaches are recommended to not just win your child over but to have their utter and complete respect.

With a no-nonsense, straightforward approach, How to Talk to Kids is the ultimate guide for both new and seasoned parents. Rachel Burgess, a mother of three, offers sound advice and strategies on getting your child to listen.

Some of the areas explored in this book are:

  • The reason your child is not listening to you 
  • Practicing active listening
  • Understanding the difference between discipline and punishment
  • Mistakes made when listening to your kids
  • Managing your anger
  • Understanding your child’s psychology
  • Effective consequences
  • Teaching good manners
  • Making conversation with your kids a priority 

Whether you are at your wit's end with a child who talks back and does the opposite of what they are told or you merely want to sharpen your parenting skills to create a bond and mutual respect with your child, How to Talk to Kids is the guide for you. Rachel advises from an empirical perspective with a style that is emphatic, instructional, and exhortative.

By the end of his book, parents will not only be more knowledgeable and understanding about the “why” of their child’s behaviors, but will also take a step back to examine themselves and their own approach toward communication with their child.

©2019 Rachel Burgess (P)2019 Rachel Burgess

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After this book, I have many more ideas about how I need or should talk to my kids, and that I need to listen without always interrupting them.

It's like having an older friend that gives me tips and strategies about how to talk and listen to my kids without feeling ashamed to ask or receive help.

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No nonsense approach!

This is a no-nonsense, straightforward approach, how to get your child to listen and understand!

Shows how to ensure your child practices active listening and also helps parents do the same thing.

We found it particularly useful for anger management and dealing with stressful situations.

So, if you want a well-behaved child with good manners this is the book for you.

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Great book

I really enjoyed this audio book very much can’t wait for more audio books

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Good bit a little repetitive!

This book has some excellent ideas for parents especially if you are struggling for ideas on how to deal with your children in certain situations. I particularly found chapter 5 interesting as it reminded me of how I think sometimes and how that's related to my parents, parenting style.!
The only thing I found a little negative was the tone of the writing at times. it just comes across as a little negative towards the parents, as in its your fault if your child does/doesn't do something. I personally feel that we should supprt/reassure patents when they are struggling and not blame their efforts. as it is effectively illustrated in chapter 5 that we learn from our patents and sometimes it is hard to break that cycle!! overall a very good book.

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Great Insights

Very valuable tips and tricks that will help me to become a better parent and communicate better with my kids. A great book would definitely recommend to new parents!

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Relatable and so useful

This book found me at the perfect time in my parenting journey, when I struggled to effectively communicate with my small children. I was often impatient and constantly felt guilty about my tone of voice I used with them. I was desperately looking for solutions to change my parenting style.
This book is great. It’s written in such a way that every parent can fully understand it and relate to it. It’s packed with helpful practical advice without ever being condescending. I’ll be listening to it over and over for the coming years.
If there’s anything I can point out that could be improved on, is the narration. It was a bit robotic, like being read by a machine. (And the phrases “therefore” and “as such” could have been edited out many times.)
I think this book is a great companion for practicing parents and even childcare providers. I’ll even make my husband listen to it.

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Practical, relatable advice

I found the advice in this audiobook to be both practical and relatable. There are many insightful ideas for talking to our children laid out here that we often overlook. This book brings our focus back to such ideas, including using our children's names when we talk to them and speaking to them like adults. I'll be using many of the strategies moving forward.

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Practical insight

This is a good introduction. Some things i knew and other things was good insight. Some great examples and practical tips but does seem like more practical tips will be required if this is to really work. Great tone and not judgemental.

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Practical help for those involved with kids.

This book has some great tips to build communication skills and good ways to help our children with learning.

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Practical and Relatable!

The book How to Talk to Kids offers some good ideas about one can talk to kids so they will listen to one. The tips are very simple and easy to implement. Kids get distracted lot so making sure that there is a direct eye contact when one is talking to them is crucial.
Very practical and relatable!

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