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  • How to Flirt with Women: The Art of Flirting Without Being Creepy That Turns Her On! How to Approach, Talk to & Attract Women

  • Dating Advice for Men
  • By: Ray Asher
  • Narrated by: Russell Newton
  • Length: 3 hrs and 17 mins
  • Unabridged Audiobook
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (54 ratings)

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Summary

Are you unhappy with your dating life? Are you craving female attention and sex, but not getting them? Do you secretly feel unattractive because of some rejections you've faced in the past?

Flirting is the art of small talk. It includes a lot of playfulness, smooth conversation skills, and high social intelligence. In fact, with the right words, right tonality, and right "approach" - you can make ANY woman highly attracted to you.

This book is the most comprehensive guide ever written about flirting that will show you how to flirt like a pro.

Here's a taste of what you'll discover inside:

  • Exactly what to say to make a conversation flirty and amusing
  • Tonality tricks that make you look confident, funny and charismatic
  • Four crucial principles of flirting that work for all women of all cultures
  • How to create a "leader" frame in every conversation you have with women, and make them respect you
  • The EXACT words and gestures that impress women
  • How to text a girl and how to flirt online (with detailed tips for every social network)
  • Techniques on how to talk to women in different places and different social situations (at work, while traveling, at restaurants, farmers’ markets - you name it!)

And much, much more…

If you're ready to finally learn the art of flirting with women and become an attractive guy, now is the time.

So, what are you waiting for?

©2020 Ray Asher (P)2020 Ray Asher

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It’s a must-have

Imagine you are in a car race, millions of dollars at stake, you are surrounded by world-class drivers but the only experience of driving you have is driving your car to and from work. Winning that money will be impossible even if you finish the race. Now, imagine the same situation but this time you have Michael Schumacher one of the greatest drivers to have ever lived on the other end with an earpiece telling you exactly how to maneuver every curve, how to approach every situation. It’s the same with Ray’s audiobook. He will tell you everything on how to flirt with women, you don’t have to do it alone. Ray’s experience and knowledge will help you win the race at the end of the day.

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No actual guidance about HOW to flirt

This only gives over and over common sense tips about what to not say or do. It really doesn't help a man to actually flirt. There is no chapter about flirting.

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A book not focused enough purely on Flirting itself

I have read my fair share of books tackling the topic of attracting woman.

What I was after here was a book purely about the anatomy of flirting.
I just plain and simply would like to understand more about how to flirt at all let alone better.
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This book covers a lot of stuff but it doesn’t in my option focus enough on evolving a person to flirt more and better.

Aside for that, this book does tell me a lot of things which others may Simply not be aware of at all (as well as some stuff about flirting).

It’s just too much of a pick-up type book instead of just being a book about how to simply flirt.

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Sensible advice

This provides a lot of insight into what women like and how to behave and speak to them. If I only had this book earlier!

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Jammed packed with value

I was looking at flirting the wrong way. I thought showing off fancy cars and jewels is the way to any women’s heart. I was wrong, you will attract gold diggers and the wrong ones. I used to try and show women some fancy things for them to fall for me, but it didn’t work. To my surprise in a good way, the content of this audiobook is mind-blowing. It has 14 chapters jammed packed with value, I learned flirting fundamentals, how to find the right woman, the mechanics of flirting, I even learned how to flirt with neighbors. I will always be grateful to Ray for this amazing audiobook. I’m now in a happy relationship that is not built on money or any material things. Thank you, Ray.

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It will show you the way

I like older women, but approaching them was always a problem for me. Then I discovered this audiobook. It changed my whole perspective of how to flirt with older women, now I know where to meet older women and how to make a perfect conversation with them. My life is meaningful again thanks to Ray Asher. Discovering this audiobook was a life-changing moment for me. Stop wasting time listening to dating gurus, this audiobook will show you the way.

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This is so amazingly good

All I ever wanted was to be able to joke and laugh with women and have them return the flirtation. When I listened to how to flirt with women audiobook, I got more than what I wished for. Now I can flirt with any woman and they actually love it.

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This is life-changing

People that I grew up with will describe me as shy and quiet especially around women. Some might even go as far as telling you that I don’t like women. I spent sleepless nights watching YouTube videos and researching information on how to seduce
women, but they all didn’t work or they just work up to a certain stage. Then I came across this audiobook by Ray Asher, and
everything changed almost instantly. He even tells you on what to say, how to say it, what to wear, how women look at
flirting, how to flirt at different places, how to build chemistry, he will even tell you how to flirt online. I have never
been this excited about meeting a lady because I know she will be mesmerized. Sometimes I just flirt to put a smile on a woman’s face. It’s so amazing what you can do after listening to this.

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Awesome content

I have been talking to women my entire life without any luck, I even thought that I was cursed or something. It turns out that I was doing it all wrong. After I listened to Ray, I realized that I knew nothing about flirting. This audiobook will break it to you piece by piece on how to approach and talk to women. I didn’t even know that flirting at bars and restaurants is not the same as flirting at work. Literally, my whole dating life was a mess, but this audiobook shone some light on it. I will be forever grateful to Ray for this awesome guide. I’m sure every man that has ever listened to this will agree with me on this.

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It changed my entire dating world

I was tired of being ignored by women. I have been searching the internet day and night looking for dating advice, I almost gave up when I came across this audiobook. It changed my entire dating world, now I know all the mechanics of flirting and how to flirt when you are at a certain place. I wish I had listened to this audiobook back in the days.

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  • john
  • 09-12-20

Not flirting, more like plain basic dating advice.

I’m trying to get good with FLIRTING- joking, laughing, talking, playing w words etc. I really only made it half way through this book. It was instead LOTS of very basic dating advice which can be found anywhere. Maybe I’ll give it another try in the future.

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  • JoShMysTer
  • 25-11-20

Lacks substance

Probably for beginners or teenagers. It gives you basic guidelines on what to do or not do based on some situations. Information provided probably worked in the late 2000s but for 2020 it’s quite outdated.

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  • Sarah H
  • 02-06-20

Flirted with my colleague

I had a few gorgeous women at my workplace. Always wanted to flirt with them, so I followed the steps on how to flirt with colleagues at work. Surprisingly, they worked! - Two of them smiled at me when I flirted!

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  • Papabear
  • 13-12-21

Facts! It works!

I recently went on date and the back of my mind I remembered the subtle hints my date was giving me at the end she kissed me. This audio book was amazing how accurate it was.

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  • 13-10-21

Passive income for the author... NOTHING for you

Fails to actually TEACH the art of flirting.

ONE pretty vanilla chapter on flirting mechanics... what!!?

The rest is fluff and what NOT to do so you won't piss off her Highness. Precious little on what TO do or HOW to do it.

The narration seemed to errode into auto-generation about half way through, adding insult to injury.

I want my money back Audible

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  • shiraz sheikh
  • 12-07-21

Interesting

Although I like learning about how to date the opposite sex I felt some of the tips he was giving were already heard off and I found offensive towards the end on how to flirt with woman in other countries and hand gestures and other stuff

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  • Paul M. Amaya
  • 21-11-20

For legends


Me and my friends we call this an ‘Audiobook for legends’. Once you listen to it you will understand why we gave it that name.

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  • Larry R. Mason
  • 21-11-20

The best audiobook out there

How to flirt with women is easily the best audiobook out there when it comes to dating and relationships advice. I find it very fascinating and interesting to listen to.

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  • Joe T. Davis
  • 21-11-20

The real deal

Flirting game is tough, but it’s not supposed to be. I listened to this once and I immediately knew what I was doing wrong. This is the real deal right here.

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  • David J. Hall
  • 21-11-20

Give it a chance


Flirting is really hard especially for us men that don’t have a fat bank account. But if you give this audiobook a chance and listen to Ray’s advice, I can assure you that you don’t need a fat bank account to flirt with women.