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Summary

Men want love too! From the author of the best-selling book God Where Is My Boaz comes a book that will help men who truly desire love and a woman they can spend their life with. He Who Finds a Wife takes a practical and spiritual approach to guiding men on the path that will lead to their self-growth and an amazing relationship.

©2015 Stephan Speaks LLC (P)2017 Highly Favored Publishing

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Should have had a different title

The narration was good, however it was aimed at finding a Christian wife for a Christian man. Very focused on a relationship with God first.

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great information the best speaker that ove listened to in regards to relationships and self development. he hits everything on the the head. need to listen to it over again and throughout my day as it feels soothing.

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Before you look into this book at all...

I think the book demonstrates a good understanding of some of what it requires to actually be a good spouse, as well as to “find” a good spouse. However, I find it really troubling that the writer seems to be a bit reluctant to name fornication as a sin. In one instance, the writer says, “... you shouldn’t technically be [doing that], but if you are...” - something along those lines. I think since the writer seems to imagine his audience to be Christians (as he so often advises the man to strengthen his relationship with God), he should also be clear on the fact that sex outside of marriage is not just something that can “becloud your judgement of the woman”, but that it is a sin. If you’re practising that, and don’t repent and completely stop such acts, your destination is hell. It’s a simple biblical truth. If any man is struggling to abstain from sex, your need is not a spouse as yet. You need salvation from God. Seek that first, and God will add to your life all the good things He promises, including the wife.

All in all, I think you may read the book if you’re sure of your standing with the Lord. If you’re not, please, if you read the book at all, understand that God doesn’t condone sex outside of marriage. This book fails to flog that fact

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Fantastic.

Both the writing and the narration was peng. Stephan nailed it. The audio was clear too. Bravo

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Short straight to the point and handy tips for man

Most of the concepts introduced in this book aren’t new to me but the way they have been presented is easy to assimilate, straight to the point and I really like the take on men submitting, we forget that 1st and foremost we have to submit to God and having a relationship with God is key. Women will not submit to a man with no leadership skills, I recommend this for those that need to be reminded or those that are still searching

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Good ideas and summary into relationships.

Very enjoyable audio for single man looking to settle down one days full of wisdom.

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  • Lakishia Greene
  • 04-12-17

great book

great book very sound advice for men. I'm a female that was interested in educating myself on what a godly man would be looking for being that I'm a god fearing woman looking to one day become a wife I would certainly recommend this book to both men and women.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 01-03-19

Great Book!

This book is valuable for both men and women. Alot of lessons I can implement and others gave me insight as to what to look for in a healthy relationship with my future husband.

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  • Melinda Joseph
  • 13-04-21

A MUST READ

THIS BOOK WAS PURCHASED FOR MY HUSBAND OUT OF CURIOSITY I LISTEN TO THE AUDIBLE AND DIDN'T STOP LISTENING UNTIL IT WAS FINISHED. IT HIT HOME FOR ME AS A WIFE. YES IM MARRIED ALREADY BUT THIS BOOK HELPED ME SEE MYSELF AND REMINDED ME OF WHAT THE WORD OF GOD SAYS PLEASE PURCHASE YOU'LL BE BLESSED SINGLE OR MARRIED

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  • Henry
  • 09-10-18

Great guide for a man.

Best read ever. I wish I had read and listen to this before I met many other women in my life. The book it’s not about only meeting your future partner but it’s mainly about self improvement as a man. This instantly changed my view on women and life. It directed my focus on God and to myself. Working on me and allowing God direct me hence that will attract high quality people into my life. There are much more he talks about but I don’t wanna get it all away. It’s only 2hr listen or read. Get it

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  • Da'Jour Davis
  • 20-08-20

Words of Encouragent

As a Young Adult these days it is very easy to be turned off by the Idea of Marriage. I would like to say this book has offered insight that many males are missing. I have found the flaws that are pointed out in men to be true because what I have seen and what I have personally experienced. Excellent Book. It could speak to any man who is willing to listen.

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  • Charniece Barksdale
  • 24-06-19

Very well put together.

As a female listener, I must say this book was true and straight to the point. I will be sharing this with a few male relatives.. they may receive it now that it's not coming from me.

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  • Trevin
  • 13-03-18

Excellent listen and a great addition to any man’s library.

Well written and filled with a ton of great information that could benefit any man seeking guidance and direction in their personal life. The reader must still effectively incorporate the knowledge presented in this book, but it is an excellent starting point. I advise you listen to it multiple times to increase the effectiveness of this book’s message.

All the best to you my Brothers. Trust God and Chase Change.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 13-12-17

Amazing..

This was a pleaaure to listen to and learn from. This book is a must read for anyone wanting to be the Godly man that the Word calls us to be

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  • RICHARD
  • 22-03-21

A wise older brother

I loved the book! He is very practical, insightful and relevant. He is very honest about his beliefs but he offers alternative approaches for others. Great advice for finding a life partner.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 14-03-21

Great book

Truly love it. A must read for ALL MEN! Well wrote and spoken. Thank you

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