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From Here to Eternity

Travelling the World to Find the Good Death
Narrated by: Caitlin Doughty
Length: 5 hrs and 37 mins
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Summary

As a practising mortician, Caitlin Doughty has long been fascinated by our pervasive terror of dead bodies. In From Here to Eternity, she sets out in search of cultures unburdened by such fears.

In rural Indonesia, she observes a man clean and dress his grandfather's mummified body. She meets Bolivian ñatitas (cigarette-smoking, wish-granting human skulls) and introduces us to the Japanese ritual of kotsuage, in which relatives use chopsticks to pluck their loved ones' bones from cremation ashes.

With curiosity and morbid humour, Doughty introduces us to inspiring death-care innovators, participates in powerful death practices almost entirely unknown in the West and explores new spaces for mourning - including a futuristic glowing-Buddha columbarium in Japan, a candlelit Mexican cemetery and America's only open-air pyre. In doing so she expands our sense of what it means to treat the dead with dignity and reveals unexpected possibilities for our own death rituals.

Read by Caitlin Doughty.

©2018 Caitlin Doughty (P)2018 Orion Publishing Group

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wonderful

Well written with respect for the traditions but also slightly comical at times. Very interesting.

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Loved it

I’ve just recently started listening to audiobooks and find them very hit and miss due to the narrator, but this was perfect. Caitlin is fantastic, I could listen to her all day and when I saw she was narrator I was convinced.

I read her first book in paper form, which I also loved. I have this book in hardback too but haven’t had time to read it due to work, so listening to it was the fastest way I could consume it. I thoroughly enjoyed it!! So much so that I may revisit her first book in audio form too.

The concept is incredibly interesting even for a seasoned reader in death and human practices around it I found the mid section surprisingly eye opening with some refreshing thoughts I hadn’t considered before.

Happily remaining a longstanding fan of Caitlin’s work!!

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Fabulous.

An informative and enjoyable account of how different cultures around the world approach one of the last great taboos.

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Just with Caitlin Doughty's first book Smoke Gets in Your Eyes I thought this was fascinating. I loved hearing about the death rituals and cultures from various places worldwide. Some seemed bizarre, some seemed slightly sickening and others made complete sense. Whatever I thought if each different country's approach it made me realise that the western world are so behind the rest of the world because death is still a taboo here and very much hidden from the public eye. Hearing about the countries that have vastly more public involvement than that found in the UK or US has made me realise that our hide-all-but-absolutely-necessary approach is likely why we still fear death and have little to no idea of what happens to our bodies after death because people here feel it's not something that should be talked about.

We need to change this and with this books candid but humourous look at death we can begin to make the changes we need for death to no longer be a taboo. One slight warning however. If you have never watched and want to watch Psycho without being spoiled watch Psycho before diving into this.

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Love her and her videos on YouTube and her books

Love caitlin and her videos on YouTube and her books worth the reading can't wait for more from her

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  • 12-06-18

Caitlin is so refreshing!

Again loved her book. Next book Caitlin needs to be on how to prepare for our own death and to oversee the death and funeral of loved ones

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Love love love it!

This is by far the best book I've read in a long time! It was so interesting and really got me thinking about death in a completely different way.

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a book you will never forget!

Caitlin is completely right, in the West we hide or ignore death when we should be death positive and want to be involved with the remains of our loved ones. This book has really challenged my thinking and attitudes towards death an incredible book!

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Caitlin Doughty brilliant as always

I can't imagine Caitlin's words being read by any narrator but her. She's so passionate about the cause of death positivity and acceptance, seeing unusual death cultures around the world from her perspective was a great listen and I really recommend this book.

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fascinating

absolutely loved this book. fascinating, intelligent and in parts humorous. It harks back to a time that women took the last watch as well as the first and questions why we have let big business take over one of the most personal experiences of our lives.

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  • B. Curtis
  • 10-03-19

Traveling to gain a good death perspective

Thoroughly enjoyed the book. I want to seek to more death rituals around the world and love how you also pointed out how not to act. I'm often embarrassed by the lack of tact western travellers make when being guests in sacred ritual. Incredible book that I would absolutely recommend to friends but especially family.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 26-02-19

amazing and thought provoking

I thoroughly enjoyed listening to this work. the author has a lovely voice and her reading style is nice to listen to, varied voice and pace.

the content was thought provoking and vivid. I could see myself alongside her and imagine the scenes easily. I found myself questioning my outlook on death and it rituals around it. I found much comfort through this book



whether you are comfortable with death or fear it I would highly recommend this audio book!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 24-10-18

Made me cry

Found great comfort after my fathers passing, made me more at ease with life in general.

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  • R. Schouten
  • 30-08-18

Great!

Fascinating and educational. Told with dignity and a delightful sense of humor by the author Caitlin Doughty.
Highly recommended!