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Family Man (Dreamspinner Press)

Narrated by: Colin Darcy
Length: 7 hrs and 40 mins
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Summary

Sometimes family chooses you. 

At 40, Vincent “Vinnie” Fierro is still afraid to admit he might be gay - even to himself. It’ll be a problem for his big, fat Italian family. Still, after three failed marriages, it’s getting harder to ignore what he really wants. 

Vinnie attempts some self-exploration in Chicago’s Boystown bars, far from anyone who knows him. Naturally, he runs smack into someone from the neighborhood. 

Between working two jobs, going to school, taking care of his grandmother, and dealing with his mother’s ongoing substance abuse, Trey Giles has little time for fun, let alone dating someone who swears he’s straight. Yet after one night of dancing cheek-to-cheek, Trey agrees to let Vinnie court him and see if he truly belongs on this side of the fence - though Trey intends to keep his virginity intact. 

It seems like a solid plan, but nothing is simple when family is involved. When Vinnie’s family finds out about their relationship, the situation is sticky enough, but when Trey’s mother goes critical, Vinnie and Trey must decide whose happiness is most important - their families’ or their own.

©2017 Heidi Cullinan, Marie Sexton (P)2018 Dreamspinner Press

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  • Stacy Thompson
  • 07-06-18

Family Man

Alright... Can we talk about the Audio for a minute, before we get into the book... This book is not really a comedy, but something about the narrators voice Mixed with Vinny's character was just amusing to me and I could not stop smiling. I Also found myself laughing out loud during inappropriate times during this book, that weren't really supposed to be funny. It was almost like the narrator was trying to get into character and make Vinny into a Macho Italian New Yorker with the accent, but it didn't fully come across the whole time. Idk, maybe it was just me and my opinion, but it really made this book A Lot more Fun and interesting to listen to, since I wasn't quite sure what to expect from one minute to the next even though I had previously read this book. The first time for me with this narrator Colin Darcy and I look forward to seeing what else he's got for us.

Now... The Book.... I've read this one before, and liked it which is no surprise since these Authors are both fantastic at what they do individually as well as when they Collaborate books together. The only odd thing is the characters switch off between one point of view to another when talking, but the story is so well written its not a big deal where it could be if this was coming from different authors, it actually works for this book.

We have a late 30's Macho Italian man Vinny, with a Huge Family *Add in all Large Italian, Catholic Family & "Guido" Stereotypes* (which is NOT meant in a mean way at all, it is just describing his character and backstory *Think Jersey Shore*) Vinny is coming out as a "first time gay" even though he did mostly know he was, but was just denying his real feelings for years, being with and marrying women like he thought he was "supposed" to do. We also get sweet Trey who has an unbelievable amount of Angst ridden and Depressingly sad baggage he has to deal with daily in his life, which leaves him still a Virgin in his early 20's just trying to make it through life day by day. I absolutely love that even though they are both realizing their feelings together and for each other, Its not an instant-love story and they don't just jump into bed together. We get a real book here with actual feelings and romance, all drama and angst and family issues included with some slight twists thrown in. I would highly recommend reading this one.. And getting this book in audio too is just an added bonus, cause it was pretty great.

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  • Belen
  • 04-07-18

3.5 Stars

I really liked the story as a whole. There's just the right amount of drama, only a little angst, a bit of humor, some wonderfully passionate scenes, getting to see Vinnie and Trey grow together and navigate their relationship...but the major issue I'd forgotten I'd had when reading actually became exacerbated when listening (the narrative changes in perspective from Trey's first person POV to Vinnie's third person POV) and made this, quite simply, a less pleasurable listen. 

Do not get me wrong, Colin Darcy did a good job. He uses distinctive character voices, employs emotion well in the narrative, has good pacing and timing. Frankly, if the story had been told in just first person or third person, I would be giving this 5 stars. But the change from first to third was just annoying in the extreme for me personally and I fought through to finish the audio. The only reason I finished it was because I enjoyed listening to Colin Darcy narrate.

The story had two points I can easily relate to: realizing your sexuality wasn't what you were taught it should be, and also the frustration, rage, and despair from loving someone in your family who uses their addiction as an excuse to continuously cut a wide swath of destruction in your life.

Family Man is a contemporary romance with light drama and angst, a very happy ending, and good narration. So take my complaining with a grain of salt, and check it out yourself.

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  • BrattyOz
  • 19-06-18

Thoroughly enjoyable

I did not have a problem w/ accents some other reviewers had, but I am Australian and didn’t know the difference. I just enjoyed the story very much and recommend it.

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  • LeEric Ross
  • 26-06-18

A terrific story!

I just loved this story. The authors did a great job with the main characters making it very easy for me to connect to each of them. As a gay man, coming out can be difficult process especially when it comes to family. They did a great job of expressing this making the story fell more realistic and relatable. I really enjoy Colin's performance. He made it easy to listen to and distinguish between the characters.

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  • TNI
  • 17-06-18

when a decent story meets bad narration

This is definitely a good story but the narration was horrendous. It almost felt like he was reading word for word insted of actually playing a part. Also when he did the role of Vinny I couldn't help but laugh it was like he was trying to hard to sound Italian and it just came off sounding like he was from Mississippi.
The story as a whole wasn't the worst story I've ever read but it wasn't the best. There was definitely a sense of reality there with the issue that Trey deals with with his mom and I get it but I feel like it kind of took over the story.
I would recommend the book just prepare yourself that the narration is a bit weird, also I don't like the way it ended.
ps there is only two sex scenes if you were curious.

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  • Cupcake
  • 14-11-18

Sooooo much to like!

This book has been in my TBR mountain since forever so I pounced when it came up in audio. Before I go into my thoughts on the book, let me just say that Colin Darcy did a wonderful job narrating. His Vinnie put a smile on my face repeatedly. My experience with Italian Americans is limited to The Sopranos so I've no clue if it's spot on or too much but I LOVED it. His Trey melted my heart. It was the sweetest voice! I don't know what he did to his voice for Trey but the timbre or whatever melted my butter. So, I will be actively looking for other books narrated by him in the future.

There are few tropes I like more than the age difference one and Family Man put the additional twist on of both men being virgins too! Well, Vinnie's only a virgin in same sex relations, but regardless I really liked this twist because it sort of leveled the playing field between them.

Vinnie having struck out in the marriage department three times decides maybe it's time to try to explore those attractions he's sublimated since college. Trey makes him feel things he's never felt before, things that are confusing and wonderful simultaneously.

What I liked so much about Vinnie was his authenticity. He's from a big, loud, very close knit family and they're important to him; he doesn't want to lose them. He also is falling hard for Trey and doesn't want to shortchange him either. The gamut of emotions he runs all felt very genuine, heartfelt and without artifice. He says what he thinks and does what he says he's going to. He also embraces his desires even though he fears being emasculated by them.

Trey is from the opposite end of the family spectrum. He's had to be self-reliant his whole life because his mother is an alcoholic. He has his gram but they are struggling to make ends meet and they are proud people. I could talk ad nauseam about Trey's childhood and how that probably relates to him still being a virgin who's waiting for The One at 25, but I won't. Suffice to say, he and Vinnie have much to learn from each other.

Family Man is a slow burn with oodles of UST and not a whole lot of sex, but their connection to and desire for one another is on display through both of their perspectives. However I would've liked more focus on their relationship development. There were so many things that occurred off page. Were this a movie a montage would've likely sufficed to show them spending more and more time together but as it stands it's just time jumps of them still being together and offhand references to past events.

I appreciated how the differentiation in their families was illustrated. Vinnie's family takes over.; if you're "family", you're family and they're in your life whereas Trey has had to live with disappointment. As someone with alcoholics in her family I felt for Trey, identified with his anger and respected his wariness. However, I think the focus shifted away from Vinnie and Trey to Trey's dysfunctional relationship with his mother towards the end. Unfortunately, the romance never regained traction and that overshadowing of the romance left me wanting. The ending felt rushed and left me wondering what about gram? what about Trey's mother? are the Fierro's just going to babysit her forever?

Unquestionably the ending is sweet and affecting but it also felt a wee bit disingenuous and I wasn't there yet. I needed Vinnie and Trey to have more time together. Another couple of chapters with them together, being fully immersed in each other's lives and getting acclimated to being out with Vinnie's family would've gone a long way.

Nevertheless, it's still a worthwhile read especially with regard to coming of age no matter your age and embracing who you are even if that person bucks traditional stereotypes.

#LGBTQ #AgeDifference #FamilyDrama #ContemporaryRomance #HurtComfort

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  • Tams (TTC Books and more)
  • 02-11-18

If at first you don't succeed try, try again.

Thrice divorced, Vinnie is trying to figure out who he is when Trey dances his way under his skin. What starts out as exploration develops into something more like soul searching. And when push comes to shove, Vinnie is determined to go the distance. Now if he could only get Trey to agree with the plan.

This story was the perfect balance of intrigue, angst, romance and just enough humor to balance out the underlying seriousness within the story. It flowed really well from one chapter to the next and kept me completely engaged from start to finish. Narration stayed in line with the story and Darcy conveyed the characters exactly how I pictured them in my head.

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  • Jesus
  • 15-09-18

Good story

I liked it but Trays character kinda got on my nerves but very sweet romance.

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  • Morgan A Skye
  • 01-09-18

So glad to see this as an audio - Darcy is great!

This was a wonderful book and I’d read it several time and have found something new to appreciate with each new read.

This time, as a listen, I got the joy of the new narrator – he’s AWESOME – as well as the appreciation that the slowing down and listening to a story really brings.

I think, what this time ‘round has shown me, is that this book really works as a coming of age book that happens to have a lot of romance in it. Both of our MCs are really growing in this story and their coming together helps with that growth, but isn’t necessarily the main or only cause of that growth.

I loved how Colin Darcy portrayed Vinnie – he felt spot on to me! It was wonderful! He also really shone in his ability to handle the emotional saga between Trey and his mom. He had me in tears! Really well done and highly recommeneded!

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  • Santy O.
  • 23-07-18

Fantastic Narration

A great story with an even better narrator.

Colin Darcy narrated it so well I felt like I was in Little Italy, Chicago. It was absolutely great.