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Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline

The 7 Basic Skills for Turning Conflict into Cooperation
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Length: 9 hrs and 23 mins
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Have you ever opened your mouth to discipline your child, and your parents' nastiest words tumble out? In an era when most parenting books focus on the child, this book supports parents in dealing more positively with themselves, as well as their toddler-to-school-age children, offering specific tools to stop policing and pleading with kids and start being the parents we want to be.

Based on Dr. Bailey's more than 25 years of work with children, this book explains that how we discipline ourselves is ultimately how we discipline our children. Her "Seven Powers for Self-Control" dramatically increase our ability to keep our cool with our children. These correspond to "Seven Basic Discipline Skills" we can use with our children in conflict situations. As children internalize these skills, they naturally learn "Seven Values for Living," which include integrity, respect, compassion, and responsibility.

©2007 Becky A. Bailey (P)2016 Tantor

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"Bailey's underlying message is positive and hopeful, supported with humorous anecdotes and helpful solutions to even chronic discipline problems." ( Publishers Weekly)

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  • Ryan Hervey
  • 28-06-18

Best Parenting Book I've Read

This book addresses a very real issue in parenting struggles: the parents' behavior. Kids pick up on our mood, and if we become calm, they will too. I love the overall teaching that discipline is teaching, not punishment. I also like that consequences are a good thing, just the right type of consequence. This book has taught me how to think in the perspective of the child and to consider how to talk to my kids differently. Since reading this I have rarely yelled anymore and we no longer use time-outs (and don't need to!).

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  • Marta L.
  • 22-08-17

The book about parenting I was looking for

And if you are a highly sensitive person, it gives wonderful advices and practices, for example you can't please people and set limits at the same time.

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  • Courtney Rankin
  • 15-01-20

Wonderful work, annoying voice

This stuff is revolutionary both as a parent and teacher. You will learn a lot. The voice is kind of painful though

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  • Cory
  • 24-09-19

For most kids this is so powerful

I have used CD in a general setting and sped setting, and I will say it worked perfectly in general ed. I'm still struggling now as a sped teacher. I'm hoping it just takes a little longer

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  • Britt
  • 20-08-19

Worth buying if you don’t have a free credit

This is absolutely amazing and worth reading over and over. So much helpful information. Thank you Becky Bailey!

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  • Alisa
  • 15-07-19

Helpful!!

Practical advice and instructions that will change the way you relate to your children, if you let It! I wish I would have read this book sooner.

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  • Courtney Endicott
  • 12-07-19

Narrator was PAINFUL to listen to!

It took FOREVER to finish because the narration was downright painful to listen to! I had to go back to the same parts OVER AND OVER because I just couldn't keep my focus on what she was saying. But the content seemed good, and it was highly recommended so I persisted. I'm glad I did. It was good information. I HAAAATE to read, but I'm gonna have to get the print version to go over the pertinent parts because I just can't listen to that again. There are SO MANY good voice over artists. I just don't understand why anyone would hire someone who sounds like a bored robot. Try MacKenzie Koppa next time, guys. Her voice is delightful!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 20-12-18

Helpful

Although it doesn't say anything new, it rephrases everything I've read so far. Listening to it I had several epiphanies. It helped me see me and other in another light. It helped me understand me better and understand others.
It's a very useful and helpful book, not by it self, but with other in the same line.
If I had any doubts before, now I know for sure that I chose the right approach: the respectful and loving way to raise a child.

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  • Aaron Lund
  • 14-08-18

extremely useful for kids and adults

this book had lots of examples to demonstrate effective methods for getting kids (or yourself) to do what needs to be done. The policy of attributing positive intent really does make my kid want to help me out.

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  • KIN BREWER
  • 22-01-18

great book

what you focus on you get more of such a great statement I feel that they focus too much on what you shouldn't do.