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  • A Memoir of Desire, Defiance, and Show Tunes
  • By: David Pevsner
  • Narrated by: David Pevsner
  • Length: 11 hrs and 5 mins
  • 4.8 out of 5 stars (4 ratings)
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Damn Shame

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Summary

A funny, daring, bawdy, and incredibly honest memoir from the anti-ageist, anti-body shaming, pro-sex advocate and erotic provocateur.

Over the course of his 35-year career in show business, David Pevsner has done it all. He’s acted on Broadway, off-Broadway, in independent films, and on numerous TV network shows including Grey’s Anatomy, Modern Family and Criminal Minds.

As he continues his career in entertainment, Pevsner has also dedicated himself to exploring his deepest sexual fantasies. In his late 30s, he became a mature male escort, and over the last several years has attracted a large international fan base through his blog of erotic photographs celebrating nudity and sexuality.

Damn Shame is David Pevsner’s incredible story and is a passionate and poignant look at one man’s journey from a thin, shy boy ashamed of his body and sexuality to a defiant, fearless everyman exploring his erotic desires, everything from leather and S&M to nude/erotic/hardcore modeling. Along the way, he fights back against society’s demonization of gay sex, body shaming, and ageism, while pursuing his own very personal definition of success and seeking love, validation, and self-esteem.

Damn Shame gives a loud and powerful voice to a generation of mature men who have been conditioned to believe from society (and especially younger members of the gay community) that they are sexually irrelevant, old, and undesirable. Pevsner’s life story goes in directions that many couldn’t imagine, but the lessons learned through his experiences will resonate with listeners of every age.

©2022 David Pevsner (P)2022 Random House of Canada
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  • Categories: LGBTQ+

Critic reviews

“[An] entertaining debut. . . . These heartfelt meditations on sexual shame in a heteronormative culture will enlighten readers of all identities.” —Publishers Weekly

“I loved David’s journey to zero shame about his body, his sexuality and himself. Damn Shame has my ideal combo of racy, illuminating and idiosyncratic storytelling that transports you into a stranger’s life and mind. And—or beware—there is a lot of penis!” —Alan Cumming, actor and author of Baggage: Tales from a Fully Packed Life

“In Damn Shame, David Pevsner guides us through a wonderfully appealing chronicle of his life as a performer, writer, sex worker, nude model and a gay guy making his way on his own terms. Rather than oversharing, he’s a delightful host to the most entertaining adventures.” —Paul Rudnick, actor and author of Jeffrey  

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Gambled a spare credit - and it romped home.

Bought the book on a whim after reading a Guardian article on David/plugging it - and he sounded interesting.
I was right (yay me).

He's lived his life well, managed to fit it into an amusing autobiography, and the narration is just the cherry.
I'm going to miss listening to him and whilst I'd like to keep up, suspect I'm not the target market for his onlyfans.

Which does remind of the point I wanted to bring up - this isn't an "LQBQT+ book" (despite audible's categorization) - nor is it explicit in any way I can recall. OK, "fisting" does get a name-check a few times, but only as a punch-line.
It's really quite a sweet and funny book. Maybe 12A rated
(My apologies if I've ruined a marketing campaign promising non-stop deviant filth)

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