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Better Never to Have Been

The Harm of Coming into Existence

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Better Never to Have Been

By: David Benatar
Narrated by: Dennis Kleinman
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Most people believe that they were either benefited or at least not harmed by being brought into existence. Thus, if they ever do reflect on whether they should bring others into existence—rather than having children without even thinking about whether they should—they presume that they do them no harm. Better Never to Have Been challenges these assumptions. David Benatar argues that coming into existence is always a serious harm. Those who never exist cannot be deprived. However, by coming into existence one does suffer quite serious harms that could not have befallen one had one not come into existence. Drawing on the relevant psychological literature, the author shows that there are a number of well-documented features of human psychology that explain why people systematically overestimate the quality of their lives and why they are thus resistant to the suggestion that they were seriously harmed by being brought into existence. The author then argues for the "anti-natal" view—that it is always wrong to have children—and he shows that combining the anti-natal view with common pro-choice views about fetal moral status yield a "pro-death" view about abortion. Although counter-intuitive for many, that implication is defended, not least by showing that it solves many conundrums of moral theory about population.

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At first it seems like a ridiculous idea, but very soon it becomes immediately apparent that this could be one of if not the most important question facing humanity, one which society at large will probably never be ready for. It is extremely well structured and clearly written, and would recommend for anyone with an open mind. Chapter 2 was the most insightful to me, and although highly technical in places, it made a lot of sense. This book probably caused me to reflect on my worldview more than any other. Hats off to the author for creating this underrated gem.

Incredibly Insightful

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This is essentially an academic text which most people will find far too dry. Honestly, I’d say this is unsuitable for general listeners.

Exceptional dry topic

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Well structured book, make sure to read it with an open mind due to the inherently controversial nature of his conclusion.

Logically sound

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This work is undoubtedly a masterpiece. The author puts forward a strong case for refraining from reproduction - not least, as it cannot harm those that are yet to be born. He considers various facets of the arguments from all sides - and in my view, wins the arguments, on all counts. I've given in four stars rather than five due to this one quibble - I think the book requires a university level education to keep up with some of concepts where knowledge is assumed. I don't have one, so I must admit, I did get a little lost, here and there, but not to a great extent. I would really relish the idea of the author creating a middle-brow version of this book, and weaving more of himself into the narrative. In the style of academic writing, he leaves himself out of 99.9% of the book!

This is a masterpiece!

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Benatar writes as if Jevons, Menger, and Walras never were, turning asymmetries into lexicographies. Anybody writing after 1871 should know better.

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