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Becoming Myself

A Psychiatrist's Memoir

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Irvin D. Yalom has made a career of investigating the lives of others. In Becoming Myself, his long-awaited memoir, he turns his therapeutic eye on himself, delving into the relationships that shaped him and the groundbreaking work that made him famous.

The first-generation child of immigrant Russian Jews, Yalom grew up in a lower-class neighbourhood in Washington, DC. Determined to escape its confines, he set his sights on becoming a doctor. An incredible ascent followed: we witness his start at Stanford Medical School amid the cultural upheavals of the 1960s, his turn to writing fiction as a means of furthering his exploration of the human psyche and his rise to international prominence.

Yalom recounts his revolutionary work in group psychotherapy and how he became the foremost practitioner of existential psychotherapy, a method that draws on the wisdom of great thinkers over the ages. He reveals the inspiration for his many seminal books, including Love's Executioner and When Nietzche Wept, which meld psychology and philosophy to arrive at arresting new insights into the human condition.

Interweaving the stories of his most memorable patients with personal tales of love and regret, Becoming Myself brings listeners close to Yalom's therapeutic technique, his writing process and his family life.

©2017 Irvin Yalom (P)2017 Little, Brown Book Group
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"When Yalom publishes something - anything - I buy it, and he never disappoints. He's an amazing storyteller, a gorgeous writer, a great, generous, compassionate thinker, and - quite rightly - one of the world's most influential mental healthcare practitioners." (Nicola Barker, Guardian Best Books of 2017)
"Wonderful, compelling and as insightful about its subject and about the times he lived in as you could hope for. A fabulous read." (Abraham Verghese, author of Cutting for Stone)
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Just love it, it’s probably best if you have read most of his other work as he makes plenty of references there too. If so it is great to get his exposition and critical view. I am impressed that he keeps so close to his view of life after life, (the void, dark abyss, nothingness) the state of eternal unconsciousness experienced once before we entered this brief light of day. I get the sense at 85, this is his farewell, the ending of is quiet emotional and the culmination of many hints throughout this book. I did love the Nietzsche quote at the end wishing for eternal reoccurrence, and I felt the Yalom twinkle of the eye, and thought ...”you Rascal, so there is a little hope in you that Epicurus is wrong and a light might shine in the darkness!” Either way the rippling is definitely confirmed for a century or so before the last flicker is known no more. I certainly will remember Yalom for the rest of my days. Thank you 😊

Another Fabulous Piece of Work by Yalom

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An excellent life story with many invitations for deep self examination. My first introduction to Yalom but I look forward to exploring the rest of his work. I am a kinder, gentler soul having read this book.

A Well Lived Life with Valuable Lessons

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Such a great book for the Yalom fans out there. Stunning, emotional and beautifully written. I’m glad this wasn’t his last book. ❤️

Beautiful book

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I loved this , it was fascinating to learn about Yaloms life and how it has influenced his own work and the passion and enthusiasm he has for counselling and learning about the human condition. the last paragraph blew me away, I was listening to his book while going for hikes and I reached the top of a hill when I got to his last paragraph coincidentally and it was such a beautiful way to end his amazing book. I recommend this especially if you have read some of his other books first such as loves executioner and when Neitzche Wept .

brilliant , cosy to listen to and incredible

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I am a huge fan of Irvin Yalom, he writes beautifully and with eloquence. His autobiographical work is both extremely truthful and reflective. He looks at his clients and presents them with empathy and shows how human they are as well as himself.

such a beautiful book

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