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Bargaining with the Devil

When to Negotiate, When to Fight
Narrated by: Robert Mnookin
Length: 7 hrs and 44 mins
Categories: Business, Career Skills
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One of the country's most eminent practitioners of the art and science of negotiation offers practical advice for the most challenging conflicts - when you are facing an adversary you don't trust, who may harm you, or who you may even feel is evil.

The head of Harvard's famed Program on Negotiation, Robert Mnookin provides tools for confronting devils of all kinds - in business, politics, and family life. Bargaining with the Devil guides the listener on how to make wise decisions about whether to negotiate or fight. Mnookin explains what it means to make a "wise decision" and identifies the emotional, strategic, and political traps to avoid.

Drawing from a remarkable range of real-life stories, Mnookin offers his thoughtful guidance in disputes of all sorts where the temptation is to demonize: The CEO of a small high-tech company learns that his joint-venture partner, a big foreign corporation, has been secretly cheating him under a license agreement; IBM discovers that Fujitsu, its largest competitor, has copied its software; the San Francisco Symphony is torn apart by poisoned labor-management relations; divorcing spouses, each feeling wounded and betrayed, disagree about custody and support; three siblings are in conflict about what to do with a jointly inherited vacation property.

Mnookin also examines decisions made in conflicts with evil regimes, where lives and liberty were at stake. This lively, informative, indispensable book identifies the tools one needs to make wise decisions about life's most challenging conflicts.

©2010 Robert Mnookin (P)2010 Simon & Schuster

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  • Dave
  • 22-01-19

Morally questionable

i thought the book was alright up until the story of Brenda. The author advised a lying, cheating, greedy, house wife who he liked. This woman cheated on her husband, denied it, then finally angrily filed for divorce and wanted everything. The author tried to help this person... I stopped at this point and did not finish the book.

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  • Kenneth
  • 07-08-10

Important Topic, but I Now Hate Case Studies

The book asks the fundamental question, when you should bargain with someone who is evil, either someone who is not bargaining in good faith or someone who might escape justice through negotiation. His answer is more often than you and I probably do but clearly not always. Sometimes you have to dig in and fight. It???s just that we tend to do that too much.

I???ve recently notices people taking pot-shots at the case study method. A Harvard graduate writing about Wall Street devotes several pages to condemnation of the case study method. In another instance an author demonizes Clayton Christenson (a personal hero) for his public defense of the case study method. I wondered what was going on, and where were the editors. But after reading this book I???m ready to make a small political donation to the anti-case-study league.

I found it painful to listen to 30 pages of story, for example about some couple getting divorced, for the 3 pages of payoff at the end where the author somewhat weakly attempts a synthesis. Perhaps its age; by I have plenty of stories to throw against the authors ideas, and I don???t usually rebel against any idea I can???t pretend is my own.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 31-10-19

Waste of time

If you want an in depth 7 hr ivory tower history lesson then by all means, if you want practical no nonsense negotiation skills check out "No: The Only Negotiating System You Need for Work and Home" and "Never Split the Difference." I'm not sorry for my review, the title is false advertising. If I wanted a history lesson I'd have purchased a history book.

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  • Jonathan
  • 24-07-19

Lecture book

this audiobook had some great example of bargaining with the devil, but the book seemed more of a follow along in a class room setting. Found it difficult to grab the content while I was driving and listen.

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  • Kevin
  • 19-10-18

BEWARE! This is an ABRIDGED version. Minus 2 stars

Nowhere in the summary or description could I find anything stating this was an abridged version. I was livid when I found out I paid full price for an abridged version of this book. I feel I may not have been so disappointed with the content if this had been the full version of the book. Of course I can't say because I can't go wasting my credits buying the same book twice.

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  • RBX
  • 02-10-17

so many better books on negotiating out there.

this book is fine if you have already plowed through all of the classics and all of the new ones books on negotiating strategy and preparation. it is taught as a series of cases but none of which are particularly easy to follow or relevant

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  • Glenn
  • 14-10-10

Interesting but does not live up to its title

I liked that this book explored dealing with opponents who you have a negative visceral response to. It seemed that the stories (which were very interesting) were longer than the few ideas presented here. While it fell short of delivering on the title it is still worth reading.

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