We often think marriage will fix our loneliness, heal our trauma, or resolve our insecurities. The reality? Marriage doesn't cure the battle with self; it amplifies it.

In this episode of The Work Behind The Vows, Julanda and Words share letters to their younger selves, exposing the biggest myths about tying the knot. We discuss why you can't abandon your personal healing just because you got married, and how to put a "reconciliation system" in place so you actually know HOW to reconnect after an argument.

God first. Healing second. Let's do the work.

In This Episode:

- The biggest lie about getting married

- Letter to Word’s younger self

- Letter to Julanda's younger self

- What we thought marriage would automatically fix

- Why your spouse can't be your only source of healing

- How to create a system for reconciliation

- The hilarious truth about setting boundaries (Water Bottle drama!)

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