You do not become her and then act like her.

You act like her until you are her.

In the last episode, we talked about identity-based habits and deciding who it is that you are becoming. In this episode, we are taking that one step further and talking about how to actually become that person in real life.

The answer is simple, but powerful: act as if.

Not in a fake-it-till-you-make-it way. Not in a performative way. Not in a pretend-to-be-something-you-are-not kind of way.

Acting as if means rehearsing the version of you that already exists as potential. It means asking yourself how your future self would move, speak, think, respond, choose, protect her energy, take care of herself, and show up today.

So many of us put our next-level identity on layaway. We tell ourselves that once we lose the weight, make the money, grow the business, become more confident, or finally “arrive,” then we will start acting like that version of ourselves.

But transformation does not work that way.

The real order is not do, have, become.

It is be, do, have.

In this episode, I’m walking you through what “act as if” really means, why it is not the same as faking it, and how to close the gap between who you are now and who you are becoming with one small behavior today.

Pick one way your future self would show up.

Then act as if, right now.

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