Paul Sunderland is a renowned addiction specialist and psychotherapist. With over 35 years of experience, Paul's groundbreaking work has illuminated the deep and often-overlooked links between adoption, trauma, and addiction. His powerful presentations, shared widely by the adoption community, have resonated with thousands around the world. In this episode, we explore the lifelong impact of early maternal separation, how adoption shapes identity and mental health, and why adopted people may face a heightened vulnerability to addiction. Whether you're an adopted person, a parent of loss, an adoptive parent, or a professional working in the therapeutic or community services space, Paul's wisdom offers invaluable understanding and hope.

This episode will resonate with adopted adults, parents who lost children to adoption, siblings, adoptive parents, practitioners, and anyone seeking a deeper, more honest understanding of the lifelong impacts of adoption.

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Your host is Dr Jo-Ann Sparrow - President of Jigsaw Queensland (⁠www.jigsawqueensland.com⁠)

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We acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land on which we work and the many lands that our clients now live on and we wish to acknowledge and show our respects to Elders past and present for their continuing connection to culture and the contributions they make to community. We acknowledge how much we have to learn from them and their unique understanding of connection and adoption and their recognition that at the base of every change is truth telling and healing.

Titles

Understanding Adoption and Addiction

The Intersection of Trauma and Addiction

Chapters

00:00 Meet Paul Sunderland: Addiction Specialist

01:25 Exploring Adoption, Trauma, and Addiction

07:24 The Impact of Adoption on Mental Health

11:10 Understanding PTSD and Complex PTSD

14:26 The Primal Wound and Addiction Vulnerability

18:01 Coping Mechanisms and Self-Soothing Patterns

23:10 The Role of Shame in Adoption Experiences

26:16 Types of Addiction Beyond Substance Abuse

32:05 Understanding Codependency in Adoption

39:19 Identity and Emotional Regulation Challenges

43:39 The Importance of Psychoeducation

47:49 Effective Therapy for Adopted Individuals

53:53 Self-Help Strategies for Adopted People

58:49 Supporting Adopted Individuals: The Role of Families

01:01:10 Professional Support for Adopted People

01:02:55 Final Thoughts on Recovery and Healing