Episode Summary

Here's the paradox I see constantly: A leader's role becomes uncertain. And what does that leader do? They work harder.

More projects. Longer hours. Yes to everything. They're exhausted, overwhelmed, and burning out—but they keep performing. Because if they can just prove their value, maybe they'll be safe.

Except the harder they perform, the more unsustainable it becomes. It's a trap. And if you're in it right now, you probably know it—but you don't know how to stop.

This episode unpacks why successful leaders double down on performance during transitions, what the research says about the addictive nature of the validation cycle, and how to start untangling your worth from your output.

Resources Mentioned

• Emily and Amelia Nagoski, Burnout

• Carol Dweck, Mindset

• Brené Brown, Atlas of the Heart

• Adam Grant, Think Again

This Week's Reflection Activity:

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EPISODE CREDITS

Host & Producer: Asbatra Coaching

Episode Length: 31 minutes