In this episode, Laura explores why dating so often feels exhausting, confusing, or discouraging, particularly when one person is ready for commitment and the other is not in the same place.

Drawing on insight from Mairead the Matchmaker, the conversation looks at how timing, life stage, and emotional readiness shape modern relationships. It reflects on patterns that come up again and again, including men waiting until life feels secure before committing, women staying open to connection despite setbacks, and how early communication often sets the tone for what follows.

Rather than offering quick fixes, this episode focuses on clarity and self understanding, recognising when a situation is not aligned with what you want, and trusting that dating should not require you to minimise yourself. It is a thoughtful, grounded conversation for anyone navigating modern dating with honesty and intention.

Readiness matters more than chemistry

Strong attraction does not lead anywhere if two people are not emotionally or practically ready at the same time.

Men and women often date differently

Men often wait until life feels stable before committing, while women tend to stay open to connection.

Communication sets the tone early

How someone communicates at the beginning usually reflects how they will communicate long term.

Dating is a numbers game, without being unkind

Meeting the right person requires consistency while still treating people with respect.

Not every relationship should last

Staying in something unhealthy can be more damaging than leaving.

The right relationship allows you to be yourself

A healthy partnership feels supportive rather than constraining.

00:00 – Introduction and why dating feels difficult

03:30 – Why people are marrying later in Ireland

08:00 – Readiness and timing

12:00 – When one person is ready and the other is not

16:00 – Using dating apps properly

19:30 – Communication patterns and early red flags

26:00 – Dating as a numbers game

33:30 – Confidence built through action

39:30 – How the wrong relationship affects wellbeing

43:00 – Five questions to assess a relationship

49:30 – Knowing when to walk away

56:00 – Staying open without burnout

Thanks for listening! You can watch the full episode on YouTube here. Don’t forget to follow The Laura Dowling Experience podcast on Instagram @lauradowlingexperience for updates and more information. You can also follow our host, Laura Dowling, @fabulouspharmacist for more insights and tips. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review—it really helps us out! Stay tuned for more great conversations.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.