Asking someone to be your maid of honor is one of the most meaningful moments in the early stages of wedding planning, but it can also come with pressure, expectations, and questions about how to do it “the right way.”

In this episode, I walk you through different ways to ask your friend or sister to be your maid of honor, from heartfelt handwritten letters and personalized gift boxes to surprise moments, sentimental keepsakes, and fun creative ideas. I also share advice on how to make your ask feel thoughtful and intentional while still giving her the space to say yes without feeling obligated.

You’ll learn how to match your approach to her personality, acknowledge the commitment that comes with the role, and set a meaningful tone for your wedding party from the very beginning. Plus, I share ready-to-use sample wording you can adapt for your own maid of honor proposal.

If you’re engaged and wondering how to ask your maid of honor in a way that feels genuine, respectful, and true to your relationship, this episode will help you do it with confidence and heart.

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Struggling to decide who gets a plus-one at your wedding? You’re not alone. In this episode, I break down wedding plus-one etiquette in a clear, modern, and stress-free way.

You’ll learn what a plus-one actually means, why there is no single “right” rule, and how to create a guest list policy that feels fair, intentional, and aligned with your budget. I cover the most common plus-one policies couples use, how to communicate your decision clearly on invitations and your wedding website, and exactly what to say when guests or family members push back.

If you’re worried about hurting feelings, navigating family expectations, or managing costs while planning your wedding guest list, this episode will help you set boundaries without guilt or drama so you can protect your peace and enjoy your engagement.

Choosing your wedding venue is one of the biggest decisions you’ll make and one of the easiest places to miss important details if you don’t know what to ask. In this episode, I walk through exactly what to ask during wedding venue tours so you can confidently compare spaces, avoid surprise costs, and choose a venue that truly fits your wedding vision and budget.

You’ll learn the core questions every couple should ask at any venue, plus additional questions for all-inclusive venues and venue-only or blank canvas spaces. I also cover the behind-the-scenes details venues don’t always include in the brochure, like setup timing, power and lighting limitations, staffing expectations, weather backup plans, noise restrictions, and cleanup policies.

This episode is perfect for newly engaged couples touring venues for the first time, brides who feel overwhelmed by options, and anyone who wants to make a smart, informed venue decision without costly surprises later. Bring this episode with you on your venue tours and know exactly what to look for before you sign a contract.