Some mornings feel like a marathon before 9 a.m. and for parents raising neurodivergent kids, those miles can be lined with judgment, confusion, and a lot of “he’ll grow out of it.” We open the door on what parenting looks like when ADHD, sensory processing differences, and learning challenges reshape the plan. From the first red flags after 18 months to full neuropsychology evaluations, we walk through the real process of advocating when the playbook is missing and the waitlists are long.

We swap “just try harder” for tools that work: early intervention at home, the role of OT and speech therapy, sensory diets, heavy work, and why a weighted vest or movement break can change a day. We talk about ARFID and why eating struggles aren’t stubbornness, how anxiety can wear surprising masks, and what happens when you educate your village so the burden doesn’t live on one parent’s shoulders. There’s honesty about anger, guilt and the moments you whisper “I hate this,” followed by repair, curiosity, and the reminder that labels are search terms keys to resources, not limits on potential.

You’ll hear how empathy outperforms advice, how a simple question, “Do you want me to listen or help?”, builds trust, and why self care is not a luxury but the scaffolding that holds us together. If you’ve ever felt alone in the school parking lot, or stared at a wall of conflicting opinions, this conversation offers clarity, companionship, and practical next steps.

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