In this episode, we’re catching up with some personal updates before jumping into a bigger conversation about parasocial relationships in the book world. We break down what parasocial relationships actually are, how social media has changed the way readers interact with authors, and where the line can start to blur between connection and entitlement.

We talk openly about the rise of intrusive comments, unrealistic expectations, and the unnecessary drama that can come from treating book opinions as personal attacks. From author–fan dynamics to the hypocrisy we sometimes see in reviews, we unpack how these behaviors affect creators, readers, and the community as a whole—and why it’s worth being more mindful of how we engage online.

We also share our thoughts on navigating negative reviews, maintaining healthy boundaries, and remembering that books are meant to be enjoyed, not fought over. To wrap things up, we chat about our current reading vibes and why escapism feels especially important right now.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by book community discourse or questioned your own relationship with authors and creators, this episode is a thoughtful, honest conversation you won’t want to miss.

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