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Coming of Age

How Adolescence Shapes Us

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Coming of Age

By: Lucy Foulkes
Narrated by: Katherine Press
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Why do teenagers act as they do?

** A GUARDIAN AND TELEGRAPH BEST PAPERBACK PICK **

What we experience during adolescence shapes us for life, but psychologist Lucy Foulkes shows that too often we fear, dismiss or even try to prevent aspects of it that are crucial to our development. Drawing on decades of psychological research, and including profoundly moving interviews, Coming of Age gets beneath the recent myths and age-old stereotypes of adolescence to reveal the real reasons why teens behave the way they do.

Above all, Foulkes shows that adolescents have an extraordinary capacity for resilience, empathy and mutual support, and that even the most challenging encounters are part of an essential process of self-discovery.

'Brilliant' PANDORA SYKES
'Fascinating, moving ... clear-eyed' DAILY MAIL
'Wise and revelatory' GUARDIAN
'Foulkes is steeped in knowledge about, as well as respect for, teenage life' OBSERVER
'A wonderful and deeply moving book' MARK HADDON
'Reveals adolescence's unwritten rules' JO BRAND

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The author's genuine talent to bring the best out of experiences and teach valuable learning for adolescents and their parents.

A valuable reading for adolescents and parents

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a good level- lots of facts but not too dense. heartbreaking in places but ultimately uplifting

interesting and thought provoking

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I’ve read/listened to a few books about adolescence and this is my far the one that resonated with me the most.

Best if it’s kind

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By describing how experiences shape us at such a formative age and how small variations from the norm can persist into adulthood, this book shines a light on all of us.

I found the book both difficult to accept, particularly how critical cultural norms are to adolescents functioning and also deeply encouraging, where the most horrendous of experiences were overcome.

As a teacher of 11 to 18 year old, I have the privilege of working with adolescents every day and I recognised almost all of the scenarios covered. I think this is just the starting point as a book. I would have liked much more insight into adolescent behaviour from a biological point of view added too, why don't many like getting up for school? Why they are such exponents of fairness, passionate about causes, fiercely loyal? These themes were only briefly touched on.

Explains why we're the adults we are.

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A perfect mix of psychology principles and real life accounts. My adolescence years were incredibly difficult, in fact my 31 years on this earth have been. This book has given me a much needed understanding and reframing of those years and life to date in general. It’s helped me accept and make peace with who I was and who I am today, something which I never thought I could achieve.

A powerful read for those in search of acceptance and closure of difficult times

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