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Surrounded by Vampires

Or, How to Slay the Time, Energy and Soul Suckers in Your Life

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Surrounded by Vampires

By: Thomas Erikson
Narrated by: David John
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Brought to you by Penguin.

The funny and practical guide on how to spot - and slay - the time, energy and soul suckers in your life, from the Sunday Times bestselling author of Surrounded by Idiots.

Do you often feel exhausted by conversations? Are there people in your life with belittle you through words or actions? Do you have colleagues who take up your time and don't actually do much?

You could be surrounded by vampires!

In Surrounded by Vampires, behavioural expert and bestselling author Thomas Erikson reveals how to identify and deal with those who sap your energy - whether they’re colleagues, friends or even your own habits.

With practical tools and sharp insight, you’ll discover how to:

Recognise emotional and mental “vampires” in your daily life

  • Set limits and protect your time and wellbeing
  • Build emotional resilience and self-awareness
  • Reclaim your focus, motivation and inner calm

Funny, wise and immediately useful, Surrounded by Vampires will help you banish the energy-suckers once and for all - and thrive in a life that feels lighter, calmer and more fulfilling.

'With his trademark humor and practical insights…you'll learn how self-awareness is the key to preserving your time, energy, and sanity-no matter what comes your way.' Gay Hendricks, bestselling author of The Big Leap

'Outstanding . . . Erikson impresses with his trademark facility for making research-based discussions accessible and entertaining'?Publishers Weekly

‘A good resource for understanding how different personalities communicate and deal with feedback…Everyone should read [it]' Business Insider

Equal parts logical, emotionally astute, and gut-wrenchingly funny…Buy it!' Jim McPartlin, author of The Enneagram at Work

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One of the best book I have listened to a very long time and straight to my top 5 best listens ever.
Informative book on behaviours without being overwhelming. Very honest book that reminds you to take a good look within and recognize our own behaviour too.
The humor in the book left me giggling on many occasion. I will listen to this book again

Not a dull moment in this very long book

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It’s a decent book with helpful tips and some parts were very interesting and informative. One critique I want to make is that I felt the author didn’t have good knowledge of neurodivergent people, specifically autistics and adhd. He did mention ptsd and ocd but some things he was describing could very well fit for an autistic or adhd individual such as myself and I felt the lines were just blurred and it was all coloured with one paint brush. I also heard some judgments which I didn’t like, particularly with traits that the author himself has and it felt like he was being overly harsh with people similar to him. Of course this is just my opinion, someone else might feel differently but I felt like the author really needed to up his knowledge on the above mentioned things and incorporate them in the book.

It’s a decent book

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