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It's Not Always Depression

A New Theory of Listening to Your Body, Discovering Core Emotions and Reconnecting with Your Authentic Self

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Penguin presents the audiobook edition of It's Not Always Depression by Hilary Jacobs Hendel, read by Cassandra Campbell. Includes a PDF of reference materials.

We were all taught that our thoughts affect our emotions, but in truth it is largely the other way around: we have to experience our emotions to truly understand our thoughts, and our full selves. This is why we should think not only about cognitive behavioural therapy or medication, but also about our emotions, when addressing psychological suffering.

In It's Not Always Depression, pioneering psychotherapist Hilary Jacobs Hendel reveals the most effective techniques for putting us back in touch with the emotions we too often deny - methods which can be used by anyone, any time, anywhere. Drawing on stories from her own practice, she sheds light on the core emotions (such as joy, sadness and fear), defences (anything we do to avoid feeling) and inhibitory emotions (anxiety, shame and guilt), and how understanding their interaction can help us return to mental well-being.

This is the basis of 'accelerated experiential dynamic psychotherapy:' it accelerates healing through having an emotional experience in the here and now.

It allows you to reacquaint yourself with your feelings, to recover a more authentic self and to be more calm, curious and connected.

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Critic reviews

The bottom line is this: if you're a human, I recommend that you read this book. (Diana Fosha, the founder of AEDP (Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy) and the author of the book's foreword.)
I loved it ... I have drawn my own picture of the change triangle. (Cathy Rentzenbrink, author of The Last Act of Love and A Manual for Heartache)
What is unique in this book is Hendel's mission to take psychotherapeutic tools and present and rework them in a way that can be used by individuals . . . like Penn and Teller showing us how a magic trick is really done . . . she is able to translate the method in ways that individuals can use for themselves . . . the genius of this book is converting formal psychotherapeutic strategies into a self-help toolbox (Alan Eppel, Professor of Psychiatry and Psychotherapy Supervisor in the Department of Psychiatry & Behavioural Neurosciences, McMaster University, Hamilton, Ontario)
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I liked the readers voice and tone. The story was full of truth about being a human, full of compassion and hope. Easy to absorb in to your life.

Clear and insightfull

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I highly recommend this book to anyone struggling with an anxiety and depression, or a professionals wanting to expand their understating of emotions and how to work with them. This book gives many practical examples of how to apply theory into practice and it is very easy to understand once focused on listening and trying to walk through the steps with the author. Brilliant! Thanks.

Amazing self help book!

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This book is fantastic! I didn’t want it to end. Professional or not you’ll reap the benefits x

Amazing

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This is the best book I've read on how to overcome depression. It contains play by play examples of how to overcome specific emotional disturbances as well as a simple methodology that can be applied to any issue. Would recommend to anyone with depression.

If you are looking for a book that explains "What emotions work and why ALL emotions are needed" then "The language of emotions" by Karla McLaren should be read before this one.

Best "How to" book on overcoming emotional unrest

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A must read or listen for everyone, to understand our emotions and begin to heal from our past programming and traumas.

essential emotional understanding

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