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A Woman Is No Man

By: Etaf Rum, Susan Nesmai
Narrated by: Ariana Delawari, Dahlia Salem
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A New York Times best seller.

Three generations of Palestinian-American women living in Brooklyn are torn between individual desire and the strict mores of Arab culture in this heart-wrenching story of love, intrigue and courage.

Where I come from, we’ve learned to silence ourselves. We’ve been taught that silence will save us. Where I come from, we keep these stories to ourselves. To tell them to the outside world is unheard of – dangerous, the ultimate shame.

Palestine, 1990. Seventeen-year-old Isra prefers reading books to entertaining the suitors her father has chosen for her. Over the course of a week, the naïve and dreamy girl finds herself quickly betrothed and married and is soon living in Brooklyn. There Isra struggles to adapt to the expectations of her oppressive mother-in-law, Fareeda, and strange new husband, Adam, a pressure that intensifies as she begins to have children - four daughters instead of the sons Fareeda tells Isra she must bear.

Brooklyn, 2008. Eighteen-year-old Deya, Isra’s oldest daughter, must meet with potential husbands at her grandmother Fareeda’s insistence, though her only desire is to go to college. Deya can’t help but wonder if her options would have been different had her parents survived the car crash that killed them when Deya was only eight. But her grandmother is firm on the matter: the only way to secure a worthy future for Deya is through marriage to the right man.

But fate has a will of its own, and soon Deya will find herself on an unexpected path that leads her to shocking truths about her family - knowledge that will force her to question everything she thought she knew about her parents, the past and her own future.

Set in an America at once foreign to many and staggeringly close at hand, A Woman Is No Man is a story of culture and honour, secrets and betrayals, love and violence. It is an intimate glimpse into a controlling and closed cultural world and a universal tale about family and the ways silence and shame can destroy those we have sworn to protect.

©2019 Etaf Rum (P)2019 HarperCollins Publishers Limited
Coming of Age Fiction Genre Fiction Historical Fiction Literary Fiction Women's Fiction World Literature Marriage Inspiring Thought-Provoking Middle East

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Critic reviews

"A celebration of 'the strength and power of our women'." (Booklist)

"Sometimes heroism is loud and dramatic. Other times, it is daring to listen to that quiet voice within and having the courage to follow it... Etaf Rum has done a great service by sharing these voices with us." (Shilpi Somaya Gowda, New York Times best-selling author)

"A work of literary bravery." (Nadia Hashimi)

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I was deeply drawn to every character.
i thoroughly enjoyed this book and i highly recommend it.
You can tell that books saved this author, books helped her become and writing this must have saved her too.
It's not autobiographical but it might as well have been.
thinking of getting it? a big YES.

A spectacular book indeed.

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The story and characters are true of many women whether Muslim or not and the domestic violence that is acceptable in many societies and even by women themselves. It gave me a whole different perspective on what it must be like for many women who live with limited freedom and little opportunity to integrate into new countries they are living in. The story gave hope of girls being able to stand up for themselves and gain an education while still retaining close ties with family and hopefully change the perception of themselves and value of women in society. It wasn’t an easy book to listen to but one I would definitely recommend as insightful. All were victims in own ways and nothing is totally black and white.

Heartbreaking portrayal of many women’s lives.

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A beautiful book and a sad but inspiring story. I hope there will be more to come

I need to know more

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I could not put this book down which for me who does not read a huge amount is unheard of. I felt totally involved in this book and it opened my eyes to another world. I would definitely recommend A Woman is no Man.

I loved this book.

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This is a story which will connect with many women from all backgrounds. The story explores the struggles of being a woman living in a culture and society which thrives on the oppression of women. This may just be a story for many readers but is the reality for many women. The way in which this story line has been written has connected with me on a personal level by reminding me of how one’s environment can shape and mould one’s life and how women’s experiences will differ based on their cultures and families; how women must take control of their lives before it’s too late and how important it is to break generational trauma. This is a recommended read for readers of all backgrounds to raise awareness on the struggle of intersectionality.

Powerful, reflective, emotive yet inspirational

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