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The Big O: The ultimate sex and relationship guide from Twitter guru and LaidBare podcast host Oloni

The ultimate sex and relationship guide from Twitter guru and LaidBare podcast host Oloni

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The Big O: The ultimate sex and relationship guide from Twitter guru and LaidBare podcast host Oloni

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With exclusive bonus audio material! Oloni discusses dilemmas from real women and imparts her indispensable advice.

‘The reigning sex and relationship guru of Twitter’ VOGUE

Are you ready to have the best sex of your life?

Oloni – Twitter’s famous sex and relationships educator – is on a mission to empower women to explore, express and embrace their sensual, sexy selves.

The ultimate sex-positive manifesto will show you how to reclaim and pursue your sexual desires, sensuality, autonomy, and pleasure. By breaking down taboos, rejecting shame, and refusing repression, we can all harness the power of sexual freedom and start enjoying the – sex – life we’ve always dreamt of.

With infectious energy, honesty, and humour, The Big O gives women a space to celebrate topics and conversations that have historically only been whispered behind closed doors. This book will inspire you – and educate you – on how to communicate with your partner (and yourself!) to have the best sex of your life, as well as debunking taboos and delving deep into important topics that need bringing into the spotlight; from masturbation and sex toys, to kinks, virginity, sexual identities, and sex positions you won’t know how you ever lived without.

Everyone and every body needs Oloni in their life, even if they don’t know it yet…

So ladies, shall we have some fun…?

Love, Dating & Attraction Parenting & Families Personal Development Personal Success Relationships Dating

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Critic reviews

‘The internet’s favourite agony aunt’ Stylist

‘The voice of female sexual empowerment’ New Statesman

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This book is so informative, I definitely feel more confident sexually and have only just started trying new things including sex toys!

Really great book EVERYONE should read

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Beautiful brave and informative. Great read with so many gems. keep doing what you’re doing babes xx

Amazing and refreshing

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this was such a good read. Very descriptive and a one of a kind.

Very informative

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So refreshing and empowering. Thank you Oloni for a great read. I have smiled and laughed and smiled some more 🫶🏾

Simply amazing

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Such a great read! I have followed Oloni for years now on social media and she always offers insightful and thoughtful advice to her followers’ dilemmas. I am so glad Oloni has written this book and created an audiobook too; I’m sure the target audience will have their dilemmas or thoughts on dating, sex and relationships covered in this book. Definitely recommend a read/listen, especially for cishet women who sleep with men! Oloni really advises her readers and listeners to ensure they are advocating for themselves in regards to their pleasure, sexual health and emotional needs in their romantic relationships. Oloni also discusses sexuality, hers and other people’s experiences growing up which demonstrates how important it is for her and other educators to continue their work. The audiobook is also really easy to follow, especially as other people read messages Oloni receives from her followers. Definitely recommend!

Amazing book

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