"You can't outrun yourself, but you can choose a different direction."

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What if the habits ruining your life aren't the real problem?

For years, Tom Jenkins blamed the drinking, gambling, porn, failed relationships and reckless behaviour.

But underneath it all was something far deeper:

A man who didn't believe he was enough.

The uncomfortable truth?

Tom knew something wasn't right for years.

He knew he wasn't happy.
He knew the behaviours weren't helping.
He knew he wanted more from life.

But awareness alone wasn't enough to change.

🎙️ Meet Tom Jenkins — author of The Drunk Gambler with Erectile Dysfunction, entrepreneur, traveller, conservationist, and a man who spent years searching for meaning in all the wrong places.

After decades of alcohol, gambling, pornography, failed relationships, self-sabotage and chasing the next escape, Tom eventually discovered that the thing he was really searching for wasn't out there — it was within himself.

In this brutally honest conversation, Tom shares the mistakes, regrets, lessons and turning points that helped him stop running from himself and finally build a life worth living.

We explore self-worth, loneliness, addiction, intimacy, masculinity, purpose, and why so many men spend years searching for answers everywhere except within themselves.

This isn't a story about addiction.

It's a story about self-worth.

It's a story about facing yourself.

And it's a story about discovering that no amount of success, pleasure, travel, or distraction can fix a problem you refuse to confront.

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#PodcastLife #TomJenkins #podcast

He looked fine on the outside — but was writing "I want to die" on his school papers.

🎙️ Meet Sam Eaton — once battling depression in silence, now helping thousands of men take their first step back into life.

This episode will help you realise you're not broken — you've just never been shown how to deal with what's in your head.

You'll finally understand why you feel stuck, flat, or disconnected — even when life looks fine on paper.

This will help you name what's actually going on inside you — instead of just calling it "stress" or ignoring it.

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You'll walk away with a way to start again — without needing to fix your entire life first.

You'll feel less alone, less ashamed, and more capable of taking your first step forward — even if you've been stuck for years.

Sam Eaton is an author, speaker, and founder of Recklessly Alive, a suicide prevention organization sprinting toward a world with zero deaths by suicide. Sam has spoken at over two hundred and fifty events throughout the U.S. sharing his story of battling depression and suicidal thoughts. Sam holds a master's degree in educational leadership which he utilized to create the Recklessly Alive Foundation, a non-profit dedicated to bringing mental health awareness to young people.

Sam's first book, Recklessly Alive, was released in January 2021 and reached the top 200 best-selling books on Amazon. He has amassed more than 175,000 followers on Instagram and over 90,000 followers on TikTok. His newest book, You Can Do This: Daily Affirmations to Live Recklessly Alive published by Harper Collins is available now. Sam currently resides in Minneapolis, MN, where he enjoys collecting vinyl records, lifting moderately heavy weights, and trying every flavor of Oreos.

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"You don't have a discipline problem — you're just trying to follow someone else's plan."

🎙️ Meet Alex VanHouten — exercise scientist and coach helping high performers cut through the noise and actually make progress that sticks.

Coach Alex's personal journey started with him wrestling with a painful genetic disorder called Ehlers Danlos yet still achieving his deams. This taught him the discipline of 1% BETTER Daily and gave him a passion to help others do the same.

Coach Alex completed his undergraduate degree at Vanderbilt University in 2010 focused on chemistry and psychology. In the years since, he has earned certifications in personal training, corrective exercise, performance enhancement, and behavior change through the National Academy of Sports Medicine (NASM). He's also written multiple peer-reviewed articles for the International Sport Science Association (ISSA) and published over 500 5-Star podcast episodes. He is a certified nutritionist and health coach through the Institute for Integrative Nutrition (IIN), and has been a professional coach and personal trainer since 2005.

He works with everyone from everyday men to elite operators — showing them how to train, eat, and live in a way that actually fits their life.

This episode will help you feel less overwhelmed and finally understand why nothing seems to stick — even when you know what to do.

It will help you release the pressure to follow perfect plans, and instead focus on what actually works for you.

You'll feel more in control and more grounded, with a clearer sense of where to start — without needing to overhaul your entire life overnight.

Most importantly, you'll feel less alone in the struggle, and realise that real progress doesn't come from doing more — it comes from doing the right things consistently, with the right support.

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What happens after the war ends?

In this conversation with Craig Harrison, we get into the part most people never see — coming home, dealing with PTSD, and rebuilding life when the structure is gone.

This isn't theory. It's lived experience.

What you'll take from this:

• Why ignoring what's under the surface doesn't work
• How elite performers actually deal with pressure and trauma
• What "strength" really looks like when no one's watching

If you've ever felt off, stuck, or carrying something you haven't faced — this one lands.

🎧 Watch / listen here: [https://www.nextlevelguy.com/craigharrison236/]

The Hardest Battle Was Coming Home | Craig Harrison on War, PTSD & Life After the British Army

""The world knows the shot. But the hardest battle was learning how to live after the war.""

The world knows Craig Harrison for the longest confirmed sniper shot in military history.

But the real story begins after the war — when the mission ends and a man has to rebuild his identity from scratch.

Soldiers train for war.
Very few are trained for what happens when the war ends.

And you don't have to be a soldier to recognise that feeling — the moment when the mission that once defined you disappears.

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This isn't just a story about war.

It's a conversation about identity, resilience, and the quiet work of rebuilding a life when the world you once belonged to is gone.

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"You're not in competition with anybody — you're just trying to get better than the person that walked in on day one."

What if the reason you're burning out, getting injured, or quietly losing confidence… isn't your age — but the way you define success?

Most men step on the mat trying to prove something.
They leave years later either broken, bitter, or gone entirely.

Most men don't quit Jiu-Jitsu because they're too old — they quit because their ego can't handle not winning.

This week with Rick Ellis, we break down why recovery is training, why intensity isn't discipline, and why the only real competition is you vs the man who walked in on day one.

If you want to train for decades — not just dominate for months — this episode will change how you measure success.

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In this conversation with Rick Ellis, you'll hear a completely different framework:

• Why taps don't matter as much as you think
• Why recovery is training
• Why ego — not ability — is what really slows progress
• And why the only metric that ever mattered… was you vs the old you.

🎙️ Meet Rick Ellis — Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu black belt, creator of The Art of Skill, and author of a guide built for grapplers who refuse to quit.

He didn't start at 20. He started at 41 — and cracked the code on how to train, improve, and stay dangerous without destroying your body.

If you've ever felt:

• Too old

• Not fit enough

• Behind everyone else

• Or quietly beating yourself up after a "bad session"

This episode might change how you train — and how you live.

Because this isn't really about jiu-jitsu.

It's about longevity. Identity. And redefining what winning actually means.

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I recorded an episode this week that stayed with me long after we stopped recording.

I sat down with James K. Ellis, a clinical psychologist known as The Loneliness Doctor, and we talked about something a lot of men feel but rarely say out loud — that quiet, gnawing sense of not quite fitting, even when life looks fine from the outside.

One of the biggest shifts from this conversation was realising that loneliness isn't a personal failure. It's not proof that you're broken. It's a signal — information your system is giving you about connection, meaning, and how your life is actually structured right now.

We talk about why you can be surrounded by people and still feel lonely, why friendships get harder for men as adults, and why connection isn't dependency — it's humanity.

If you've ever felt that deep, quiet ache… this conversation will land.

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You'll leave feeling less broken, more grounded, and clearer on how to build real connection as an adult.

🎙️ Meet James K. Ellis — a clinical psychologist focused on modern loneliness, helping people build real connection without shame, fluff, or quick fixes.

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How to build Real Confidence through Pressure | Discipline, Fatigue & Mastery with Owen Livesey

"You don't rise to the occasion — you default to whatever you've trained when you're exhausted." — Owen Livesey

What if the reason most men fail isn't talent, technique, or motivation — but their inability to stay consistent when nobody's watching?

🎙️ Meet Owen Livesey — world-class pressure grappler, former elite judoka, and coach known for breaking opponents with simplicity, fatigue, and control rather than flashy techniques.

In this conversation, Owen Livesey breaks down how relentless fundamentals, pressure, and long-term discipline quietly beat flash, hype, and shortcuts — on the mat and in life.

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This episode will show you why most men train harder — but very few train smarter under pressure. From Olympic dreams to rebuilding his life, Owen explains how showing up daily, mastering fundamentals, and training tired is what separates real operators from pretenders.

#owenlivesey #grappling #bjj #competing #podcast #nextlevelguypodcast #pressure #discipline #bjjgame #olympics 'longtermdiscipline #fundamentalsbeatsflashy #judo #trainsmarternotharder #masterthefundamentals #winonthemats #smarterunderpressure #traintowin #winonthematsandlife