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What You Into?

By: Joshua Fox
Narrated by: Joshua Fox
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Raw, moving and savagely funny, What You Into? is Josh Fox's autobiographical account of his spiral into the Grindr world of casual sex, hook-ups and dating apps following the break-up of his marriage.

'What you into?'
'I can host if ur looking?'
'What you into?'
'Do you like straight married men?'
'What you into?'
'Wanna meet in the bushes at the park?'

So many messages and not a single one asked how I was—or even asked my name. After a few minutes of bleak scrolling, I realised the only things I'm into are basic manners, commitment and being happily married. Which I also realised I wouldn't be finding on here. Still, that didn't stop me going off to meet the ninth stranger to slide into my inbox after finding myself getting sadder and sadder as each anonymous proposition pinged my way.

Raw, moving and savagely funny, What You Into? is Josh Fox's autobiographical account of his spiral into the Grindr world of casual sex, hook-ups and dating apps following the break-up of his marriage.

He documents this journey diary-style, chronicling the often weird, at times dark world of casual sex as he navigates his grief and anger through the consumption of men—only to discover that he too is being consumed by the process.

Fox's unflinching account of his descent into sex addiction, his struggle with depression and his search for a way back is framed within the broader background of his life. He shares his difficult upbringing in a housing estate in Manchester, and gives a self-critical commentary on his media career (and his complicated relationship with 'celebrity'), from his time as a teenage YouTube star and paparazzo through to his work in Australian radio.

What You Into? is a story of the push and pull of addiction, the power of compulsion over shame, the search for healing through destruction—set against the need for love and the desire to feel alive.

©2024 Joshua Fox (P)2025 W. F. Howes Ltd
Biographies & Memoirs Entertainment & Celebrities Funny

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A very frank listen. Unexpected in places but very absorbing. I wish Josh well for the future and look forward to the next book.

Unexpected

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I really needed to hear this! Gripped from beginning to end! Deep, meaningful and full of impact!

Lost for words!

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was good genuinely something i have seen with other gay men over the years they either spiral and can be crushed by own feelings of guilt or can embrace a sexual awakening and enjoy it all.

sadly josh was being crushed but one day i hope he either finds happiness with someone or can learn to enjoy casual sex without the guilt

dark compelling and a little too close to home on occasion

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Wasn’t sure what to expect — I stumbled across this book after following Josh and Stefano, and what a listen. Once I started, I genuinely couldn’t stop. Being from South Manchester myself, and once a kid who couldn’t quite see a way out, I found much I could relate to.

I won’t lie — this book is an act of radical vulnerability. It’s courageous, raw, and at times mildly concerning in how openly Josh shares the darker days and thoughts. You just want to reach in and give him a hug, to say, “It really will be okay.” But I know too well that, in those moments, no matter how bright the rainbow, it’s hard to shatter the dark.

The story is often explicit, very real — painfully and beautifully so — and it’s even better for being narrated by Josh himself. I’m biased, but the accent, the tone shifts, the emotional truth in his voice… it all elevates the experience. This is definitely one to listen to, not just read.

Josh, if you ever read this: thank you so much for sharing your story. I hope many others find it as moving, relatable, and ultimately hopeful as I have.

Frank, open, entertaining, honest, refreshing !

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I started out not knowing who Josh was, then as I got into it I found myself sympathising with him. But as it went on, I just thought it became a narcissistic odyssey of sex and self serving views. Josh repeatedly talks about feeling bad for doing some things he’s done in the past, but rather than learn, he continues to do the same things over and over. ‘My parents never handed me anything, I had to work for everything I have.’ Diddums, most people do this, it’s just life.

I am genuinely gutted I spent a credit on this.

Just annoying

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