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We always have a choice, Pema Chödrön teaches: We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us and make us increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder. Here Pema provides the tools to deal with the problems and difficulties that life throws our way. This wisdom is always available to us, she teaches, but we usually block it with habitual patterns rooted in fear. Beyond that fear lies a state of openheartedness and tenderness. This audiobook teaches us how to awaken our basic goodness and connect with others, to accept ourselves and others complete with faults and imperfections, and to stay in the present moment by seeing through the strategies of ego that cause us to resist life as it is.

©2017 Pema Chödrön (P)2017 Random House Audio

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All the truth any of us ever need.

There are many spiritual books out there about which it can be said 'Really, you need not read any more than this and you will have everything you need to awaken, but practice.' This is one of them.

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Wonderful, inspiring, human wisdom

I've been trying to practice Buddhism for many years now, so the content is familiar, but Pema Chödrön presents things in such a practical, beautiful and human way which really brings things alive into an encouraging and real practice.

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Amazing book, endlessly fascinating and wise.

I took my time to listen to this book because I really wanted to take it all in as I found it very inspiring to be able to open my mind and to connect with the world of my own experience and the world around me. Loved the voice of the narrator as well! Very beautifully read.

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incredible book

I really appreciated the content of this book and Pema's explainations for practical application, I will probably listen another 20 times or more , narrator had a very soothing voice which made this experience even better

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priceless teachings

priceless teachings from Pema. the only thing is it is not read by Pema herself. An initial disappointment for me, but still read very well.

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wonderful

No doubt I'll be coming back to this book again and again. so much wisdom.

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empowering for life change

love reading and hearing on audio. its a book can always refer back to for insight and practice for peacful life.

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a lot of wisdom and valuable life lessons

enjoyed it. really helped me. however a lot of info, will need to revisit again and remind myself of many valuable teachings in here

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  • 25-01-18

GREAT book

This book came to me at the right time because I was ready to not only hear but really receive the teachings. I hope for all that come across this book you open your heart and mind and just listen to this beautifully written book. I hope it benefits you as it did for me. 😊

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  • 18-03-18

Pema never fails with her teachings ! love this

from the bottom of my heart ❤ I continue to listen to her teachings . they truly resonate with me

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  • Rolland R.
  • 26-03-19

Mindbending steps toward Nirvana

Stunning. This will guide you to the understanding of no self. This book will lead you toward enlightenment. You will experience gut-wrenching wisdom, truth and a path to freedom from the bondage of human existence. This book has truly changed my life. I am forever grateful.

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  • Jennifer Higgins
  • 04-05-19

Purity of Thought Simplicity of Wisdom

i would like a guide to keep track of all the Buddhist terms and teachings.

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  • 17-03-19

Not a Buddhist nor fear based, I still learned so much

So many tools to see life and humans from another perspective. A higher way to act, live, and be. Thank you 🙏

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  • Lynita Mitchell-Blackwell
  • 16-03-19

Fortified to face this moment

My life coach Rev Rowena Silvera Beck recommended this book. It was a wonderful lesson in living in the present and knowing that whatever life brings our way, we are prepared for it.

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  • 20-05-19

wonderful to listen to

finished in one day. even after I was done with driving. such good mind training.

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  • Alan R.
  • 02-11-18

Great contemplation on compassion

Pema Chodron is a fantastic writer and the book is very well suited for driving about life contemplating compassion. Excellent focus on being un-grounded and un learning what we believe to be concrete.

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  • steve head
  • 19-10-18

Best book I have yet to be recommended.

Best book over all for personal inner growth and spiritual evolution. if that's what you want ;) Careful what you ask for these days. wowzers! 10 thumbs up!

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  • Ashley
  • 28-06-18

wonderful!

I loved this book! It was thoughtfully and spiritually provoking. and as all things do, it came across my path at the most appropriate time. I look forward to reviewing it soon.

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