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The Mask of Masculinity

How Men Can Embrace Vulnerability, Create Strong Relationships, and Live Their Fullest Lives

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The Mask of Masculinity

By: Lewis Howes
Narrated by: Lewis Howes
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Standing between you and the man you can be is one thing: The Mask of Masculinity.

Lewis Howes grew up as an athlete. He was a two-sport All-American, played almost every sport in high school, and went on to play football professionally. Howes then transferred his competitive nature from sports to business, building his podcast, The School of Greatness, into a global phenomenon and becoming successful beyond his wildest dreams. But his whole identity was built on misguided beliefs about what "masculinity" was: dangerous, false ideas learned from teammates and coaches in locker rooms and stereotypes in the media. Like so many men, Howes grew up to be angry, frustrated, and always chasing something that was never enough.

At 30 years old, outwardly thriving but unfulfilled inside, Howes began a personal journey to find inner peace and to uncover the many masks that men - young and old - wear: by asking for advice from some of the world's best psychologists, doctors, and household names like Tony Robbins, Alanis Morissette, and Ray Lewis. That journey created this book - a must-listen for every man, and for every woman who loves a man.

In The Mask of Masculinity, Howes exposes the ultimate emptiness of the Material Mask, the man who chases wealth above all things; the cowering vulnerability that hides behind the Joker and Stoic Masks of men who never show real emotion; and the destructiveness of the Invincible and Aggressive Masks worn by men who take insane risks or can never back down from a fight.

He teaches men how to break through the walls that hold them back and shows women how they can better understand the men in their lives. It's not easy, but if you want to love, be loved, and live a great life, then it's an odyssey of self-discovery that all modern men must make.

©2017 Lewis Howes (P)2017 Lewis Howes
Anthropology Gender Studies Love, Dating & Attraction Personal Development Personal Success Relationships Social Sciences Stress Management Sports

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Wow! What an amazing book. I’ve learnt a lot about my self and will admit I have a lot of work to do with in my own masks.

Amazing, I’d recommend to anybody!

My eye opener to my own life !

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I feel that 95% of men could relate in some way to the majority of the masks and some of the content Lewis provides. I really enjoyed it! That may be because I needed the hear some of it at the time I did, but make the judgement for yourselves. Enjoy the results👍🏼

Literally what I needed!

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This book should be read (or listened to) by everyone. The more
Men realise what it really takes to be your authentic self the happier, safer and fulfilled they will be. The understanding of the masks we wear and hide behind can enable a journey of self realisation that can remove the shackles and free you to be who you really are not who you think you should be. Great book highly recommended.

Empowering and liberating book.

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Incredibly deep yet practical and useful suggestions for self development of your masculine side, wow

amazing

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For the men who are strong enough to see reality for what it is, this book is a must read.

Must Read For ALL *REAL* MEN

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