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Love Is a Choice

The Definitive Book on Letting Go of Unhealthy Relationships

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Love Is a Choice

By: Dr. Robert Hemfelt, Dr. Frank Minirth, Dr. Paul Meier
Narrated by: Christopher Solimene
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About this listen

In Love Is a Choice, best-selling doctors Robert Hemfelt, Frank Minirth, and Paul Meier walk you through their 10 proven stages to recovery from codependency that results from external circumstances. Humans are susceptible to codependency because of our sinful tendency to use defense mechanisms to fool ourselves. In codependent relationships, deceitful games are played, and important Christian principles are often taken out of context and abused. God wants us to have healthy relationships with a balance between being dependent and independent.

The doctors describe how the most effective means of overcoming codependent relationships is to establish or deepen a relationship with Christ himself. They describe the causes of codependency, pointing out the factors that perpetuate it, and lead listeners through their 10 stages of recovery.

©1989 Robert Hemfelt, Frank Minirth, and Paul Meier (P)2017 Tantor Children's Health Christian Living Christianity Communication & Social Skills Personal Development Relationships Special need Health Learning Disability Marriage Self Love

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narration sounded electronic, not a natural flow of narrative. It was quite irritating and interrupted my enjoyment.

poor narration

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Starts out sounding fairly scientific, but the author seems to have a codependency with religion that reveals itself increasingly.

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