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She Comes First

The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

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She Comes First

By: Ian Kerner
Narrated by: Ian Kerner
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""She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there."" —AskMen.com

The essential guidebook to oral sex, She Comes First offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women

As women everywhere will attest, men are ""ill-cliterate."" But in the pages of She Comes First, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved, and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner—sex therapist and evangelist of the female orgasm—oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay, and is simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again.

Fun and informative, She Comes First is an encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring mutual sexual fulfillment.

 Education Human Sexuality Personal Development Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Sexual & Reproductive Health Sexual Health Health
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Empowering, thought provoking, so detailed. All in all , sooooooooo good to read this as a woman. My boyfriend is reading it now. delighted!! thank you!

Loved this!!

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Love this.

Was recommended from a lady friend of mine.

Take the hint right!?

This book confirmed to me I’m a natural world class cunnilinguist!

Eat it ALL up

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To say this book does what it says on the tin is an understatement. Without trying to sound like some sort of Casanova this foolproof step by step model has changed my sex life completely, she comes first, second, third, fourth, tenth. There’s not one woman it doesn’t work on, some take longer than others but it always works so be patient and communicate just like the book says. I’ve recommended this to others and they can’t believe the results and differences aswell, don’t think twice just go for it and thank me later.

Sit down, listen up and learn the secret.

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Is there anything you would change about this book?

The first 2 hours, (part 1) contained far to many statistics and lacked qualitative information. It was repetitive, constantly trying to assure an older generation that going down on a woman is necessary and socially acceptable! Repetitively defining what will come and what came before, the words "core play" are used far too often.

How could the performance have been better?

The narrators voice is rather shrill and disjointed, I honestly can't believe that he choose this profession. It was off putting from begin to end.

Any additional comments?

I don't know if it would read well as a book but as audiobook it contains far too much useless information and obscure referencing, as if written by a student trying to prove how much research they did to there teacher.

Too much data and statistics in the first 2 hours

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This audiobook opens my mind to the surrounds of what I'm doing, but not much more. Dashes of humor keep it interesting, and the seriousness of his voice drags me along. For a four hour listen it's taken me nearly three months to complete. For what it is, it isn't much, but you should get this if you're like me and you want to know everything anyone has ever said about this subject.

It's Good, but could be Better!

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